[kerikadi]

Unfortunately with the tiredness and the nausea our sex life has taken a bit of a nosedive

We are down to twice a week which is still ok, just not what we are used to.
However, the great news is that when I can muster the energy to have sex it is AMAZING!!! Usually once the second trimester hits I am insatiable

: and demand/beg for sex daily and the sex we have has always been great. I am very fortunate in that I am very multi orgasmic

But the last few weeks have been even better with orgams coming easier, lasting longer and being more powerful

So if you can get through the icky tummy and the exhaustion definitely give it a shot as it just might be more enjoyable than you remember

Anybody else enjoying this benefit as well?

Keri

 

[lotusdebi]

Yep!

 

[lunadoula]

Um...yeah.

When I'm not feeling barfy I've definately been more "in the mood" and very surprised at my um, increased sensitivity.

We have our "date night" tonight so I'm hoping I'll be feeling up to some fun!

 

[didkisa]

Darn, wish my DH were in town! Won't be back until next Monday...haven't DTD since before we found out we're PG!! He's been sick, then I was...look forward to seeing what all the fuss is about!

 

[MrsTC]

Woohoo for pregnancy orgasms! I agree...if you can get past the nausea and fatigue, it's totally worth it.

 

[Mavournin]

Have sex? HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

We literally haven't had sex since the night I was impregnated. I'm 10 weeks.

I am the type who loses ALL interest in sex from the moment I am pregnant to several months after I stop nursing. The hormones just suck it all out from me. I know I'll have to muster up enough interest at some point...Luckily I have a very understanding Dh.

 

[mama2leila]

sex? what's that? we haven't done it since I ovulated!

But DH finishes summer quarter tomorrow and turns in grades on monday, so after that, nap time is booked!

 

[Arwyn]

Ooooooh yea... I especially like the extra natural lubrication.

I just have to remember to not make jokes about poking the baby right before hand... (Which I think is funny, but kinda, um, prevents the actual poking of the baby.

)

 

[Lisie]

once a week is a lot for us these days! and although i am actually more in the mood while pregnant, my dh would always appreciate more. the lactating--which i have been doing now for 2 1/2 years, definitely takes a toll on my sex drive. i envy those of you who don't have that problem! can you explain to me how it doesn't affect you??

 

[DecemberSun]

We haven't been doing it as often as usual, but when we do get a chance it is wonderful! I love the extra blood flow to that particular area.

Thanfully I think my DH is slowing down- he will be 30 in a month- and he hasn't been relentlessly pestering me to play every two seconds lately, which is nice for me (especially since I'm so tired lately)!

 

[kerikadi]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lisie can you explain to me how it doesn't affect you??

I don't think anyone can really explain it to you - it bothers some women and some it doesn't. I have actually had sex while breastfeeding

: so it obviously does not bother me.
I know that 'touched out' feeling a lot of women get. I have that feeling occasionally when I have a newborn nursing constantly but even when I was nursing two we were still having sex at least twice a week.

Sex is very enjoyable for me, always has been and I don't let much get in the way of me and sexual pleasure with my husband. We have a walk in closet that sees a lot of action when we have little one(s) in our bed

Keri