Well .. i know its different but im 21 and hubby 26 ... i was married at 19 the big wonderful wedding and alot of people still frown up on it that im even married already and then being pregnant at 21 ? and especially when we lost the first 2 .. some responses were shocking and i got sick of hearing 'your sooo young you have so much time to have a baby' .. especially when it was all planned by me and hubby?? doctors and nurses even said that to me too ... they even gave me condoms once when leaving hospital to 'prevent it happening again' !!!!! and one nurse once said to me when swapping shifts after my D&C 'so you have had an abortion then?' im surprised i didnt knock her head off !! but i just look at it .. we have been together 5 years, very much in love, married, both working in good jobs, have our own house .. and we have never been so happy and others can just think what they like ... my twin sister had her little boy at 16. Everybody had something to say about this including medical people and it was shocking .. but she has always had the support of her family and true friends .. and hand on heart she is one of the best mothers i know and her son, my nephew is such a clever well behaved little boy he's amazing and she stayed strong, the dad left her when she was pregnant ... shes always worked and provided for him and shes so strong, happy and he is about to start school now... her answer as always been its got nothing to do with anybody else ... and im proud in every way of her. And thats the way i look at it .. and like you say no one ever nows what is around the corner and we just have to go with it. Good luck to all us great mothers ... single, married, unmarried, young and everything else ..