Wow! Thanks for the links! I would love to chat more with you. My daughter is 5 years old, so she's clearly past the 4 year mark ... I wonder what the chances are that she will outgrow it?
She does not have eczema but I have do and ironically, about two months before her diagnosis, my dermatologist had suggested I have allergy testing. Which, of course, since it was for me and not one of my children, so far I've neglected to do.
I'm finding it easy (relatively) to deal with this in our home, but it's out in the real world that it's difficult. School, restaurants, etc. are so much work. Her school is having a cookies with Santa party and the kids are decorating gingerbread cookies. I'm going to have to bake my own cookies, make my own frosting and find some corn-free candy that is suitable to use as a decoration. She's being really good about giving up a lot of her favorite foods (and frozen corn was literally a daily snack for her!) so I want to make sure I find lots of special alternatives for her.
I'm going to check out those links (thanks again!) and then let's chat more!