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Anyone able to "customize" Public School Schedule?

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Hi, DS entered K this year. We are on day 3 and it just seems like too much. They days are too long and the week is too long. I'd like to have him to a portion of his "school" work at home not skip the info entirely. I mean, this is K, not advanced physics. I dont want to be totally disruptive but I want to either have him miss Fridays or maybe the last couple hours of school each day.... I'd prefer the second but the 1st seems less disruptive to the teacher.

Anyone know of any precedent.. any reason I could cite that would give me a better chance of accomplishing this?
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here in WA kids don't have to legally go to school (or declare to HS) unitl age 8. I specifically asked the elementary school this summer what they would and could do if my kindergardener missed too much school.... they said "we frown upon missing school for anything other than illnesses. But otherwise, there is nothing we can do". After age 8, I have no idea. If they found out that I was OK with all the unexcused absenses, I assume they might call CPS. But given that I am always willing to HS, I would not let it get to that point.
Is every other day an option? Here K's go all day but every other day. Then in Grade 1 it's all day every day. Some places are half day every day. Our catholic(public) was like that but switched to full day every other day last year.
Its all day, He leaves home at 7:05 and returns at 3:25... M-F

he loves school, he wants to go. its just too long.
Is it all day kindergarten? Our district just switched to all day K but they said that you can still request half day. Your child would go in the morning and leave before lunch. Maybe that is a possibility?
as far as I know there is no option for 1/2 day. There are lots of options for 1/3 or short week kinder if you pay for it. Financially, Im not in a position to do that. Also, DS really wants to go so Homeschooling really doesnt work for us either - especially with my work schedule. Im trying to find a way for PS to work for us.

Per TX law if K isnt required but if you enroll child you are subject to truancy laws. You can completely withdraw your child at any time.

Im looking for a loophole like many have had to use to get vaccination exemptions in other states.... Stating religious reasons because that is allowed by state when really you object on more of an ethical. scientific basis.

I dont want to ask our principal without foreknowledge in case i have to "tweak" our reason for the request to fall withing possibly acceptable parameters.
No idea about K in Texas but here in CO my son had a child in his 4th grade class that was home schooled part time and in school part time. I never could figure any rhyme or reason to it either. I know it frustrated the teacher because they have 15 kids per class (he was #16) and the little busses held 15 for fieldtrips so they often had to scramble to find a driver for 1 kid (usually would make it the child of the driver and 1 or 2 friends). But ultimately it's what works for you and your son.
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Per TX law if K isnt required but if you enroll child you are subject to truancy laws. You can completely withdraw your child at any time.

Im looking for a loophole like many have had to use to get vaccination exemptions in other states.... Stating religious reasons because that is allowed by state when really you object on more of an ethical. scientific basis.
To my knowledge there is no loophole. I was coming to post what you did here- which is they don't have to go to K, but once enrolled they (and YOU) are subject to truancy laws.

To my knowledge TX is all or nothing. They don't allow part time homeschooling as far as I know.

-Angela
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Why do you think its too much other than the lengeth. My DD kindergarden days were Monday -Thursday 7:50-2:30 and fridays 7:40-12:45 however the day was well broken up morning recess around 9am Morning center time where they were up and moving around the classroom Lunch/recess again at 10:20 (ate way early) specials after (PE music ect) afternoon recess often more center time.. Snacktime... There was actually very little plain sit down and even when it was they were still pretty active. The first week or so my D would fall asleep in the car comming home and getting her HW
done was a bit of a battle but really she adjusted we found a system that worked best and she thrived. I have a few friends whos kids attend a 1/2 day program and they were exhaused and had tons of homework because the program was really a "full days" shoved into 3.5 hours so check that if thats what you decide. Also as another mentioned in most states Kinder is "optional" and not required. School may put up a fuss.

Deanna
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IME, getting accommodations in PS is very difficult. They are, after all, institutions, subject to all the bureaucracy of any institution. My youngest child has disabilities and even with an extensive IEP, a professional advocate, and friends in high places, we do battle regularly with the school. We've come to a place where we only fight over things that put my son's physical or emotional well-being at risk, or that threaten his future by seriously short-changing his educational opportunities. Otherwise we let things slide because it's so easy to get locked in a battle that we rarely win.

For many kids, the first few weeks are exhausting, not just because of the length of the day but because it takes lots of energy to adjust to something so new. It's very possible that your son will settle in after a few weeks or a month and be comfortable with the new schedule.
I used to teach full day kindergarten and Pre-K. The kids get used to the routine pretty quickly. My son just started kindergarten (today) and they get a short rest time after lunch. But, it doesn't take long until the kids go through the day without wearing out.
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Hi, DS entered K this year. We are on day 3 and it just seems like too much. They days are too long and the week is too long.
Too long for whom? I'm saying this kindly, because it doesn't appear that your ds is complaining.
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Its only day 3, going to full time school is an adjustment for everyone. It sounds like your DS is having a great time and is doing just fine. Of course he is going to come home a bit tired, he spent all day making friends, doing crafts, singing, playing, learning, etc. what kid wouldnt LOVE that along with lunch, recess etc. I think if you give it a bit more time everyone will adjust just fine.
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Its all day, He leaves home at 7:05 and returns at 3:25... M-F

he loves school, he wants to go. its just too long.
It appears school is 730-3-ish with a bus ride in there....that is a typical school day, plenty of time for making friends, and having lots of fun and coming home full of information and totally exhausted the first couple weeks.
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As someone else mentioned, in Tx, once your child is enrolled in public school, you are subject to the truancy laws and you cannot chose your own hours or days for public school. You could pull him out of public school for kindergarten and pay to have him in a private school for kindergarten if you can afford it and some of them have shorter days or fewer days, but in public school, you go by their rules.
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Its all day, He leaves home at 7:05 and returns at 3:25... M-F

he loves school, he wants to go. its just too long.
That 7:05 am start sounds like a real killer. Have you managed to help him out in other ways - some quiet time when he gets home (even if he won't nap), a peaceful evening and early bed-time? Organizing mornings so that they aren't chaotic before he heads out the door? Full-day school is a long day for kindergarten age children, especially if they haven't had much pre-school or daycare experience.

I don't have an answer to the issue of customizing the public school schedule, other than to say it sounds like a nice idea. I hope your school allows it.
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I would give it a bit of time. My son went to all day kindergarten last year and was fairly wiped out for the first month or so. I talked to other parents and they had the same issue. I think all day kindergarten with everything that is new from riding the bus to finding your locker to buying lunch to finding the bathroom is just overwhelming to little kids. We found that after the first month, he was much better. No longer so wiped out at the end of the day. It was just an adjustment period we had to work through.

Good luck
in our district, kids are allowed to miss one hour per day for off-site religious instruction. there must be a signed note from a representative of the religious organization for the missed time to be excused. also, the principal must approve the arrangement.

fortunately for us, the principal didnt know the handbook as well as i did LOL so I wrangled those five hrs into one whole day out of school, excused. and as for note...i wrote it myself and signed it. and yes, we really did engage in legitimate religious activity on the days missed.

might something llike this work for you, to get your dc out of some time at school?
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No idea about K in Texas but here in CO my son had a child in his 4th grade class that was home schooled part time and in school part time. I never could figure any rhyme or reason to it either. I know it frustrated the teacher because they have 15 kids per class (he was #16) and the little busses held 15 for fieldtrips so they often had to scramble to find a driver for 1 kid (usually would make it the child of the driver and 1 or 2 friends). But ultimately it's what works for you and your son.
That's why Im leaning more towards a Friday off so as to create as little disruption as possible

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Why do you think its too much other than the lengeth.
Deanna
I dont feel that it's too much in terms of my son's endurance. After being at school all day DS has no interest in doing much other having a snack, jumping on the trampoline for a bit, dinner, bath and bed. As it stands his waking hours are pretty evenly split between school and home. I dont like the ratio. Away from home he is being exposed to language, habits, etc that I dont want him to accept as normal. I believe that in order for his peer culture to not take precedence over our family's values time he spends with us should be greater than time he spends away.

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in our district, kids are allowed to miss one hour per day for off-site religious instruction. there must be a signed note from a representative of the religious organization for the missed time to be excused. also, the principal must approve the arrangement.

fortunately for us, the principal didnt know the handbook as well as i did LOL so I wrangled those five hrs into one whole day out of school, excused. and as for note...i wrote it myself and signed it. and yes, we really did engage in legitimate religious activity on the days missed.

might something llike this work for you, to get your dc out of some time at school?
I did read Texas Education Code (TEC), §25.087 and there is some wiggle room. Im going to reevaluate after one month.
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