I didn't realize I was so superstitious but I can't bring myself to buy a single scrap of anything for my baby, even though I know her gender! I do have lots of girl clothes but all my newborn stuff is stained/ ripped beyond repair, and most of it isn't even donatable. I'll also need a new crib mattress or a new crib altogether (current one has been through 5 babies!), new carseat. I always BF but like to have emergency formula/ bottles on hand the first couple months in case I have serious problems and baby needs food. Maybe it's because I got pregnant right after a loss, I just can't bring myself to tempt fate. Anyone else?