Just curious. I just announced my pregnancy to my side of the family about a wk ago. I found out this wk, that my brother's wife is also pregnant. Her edd is only a few days from mine. My mom called me to bug me about when my edd is, so she can, "plan." I got really annoyed with her, b/c with a 3 day difference in edd btwn my sil and I (this will be sil's first baby too, my third), I think it's dumb for my mom to try to, "plan" anything out, since there is no telling when either one of us will have our babies. In the past my mom has gotten on my case about the edd, she acts like it is accurate, when we all know it isn't. My last two babies both arrived 7 days prior to their edd, non-induced. We live an hr from my parents', my brother and sil live several states away, it would req getting on the plane to go to my brother and sil's (sil's family are in the same city as my parents' so they would have to travel as well). I think it is kind of ridiculous at this point to even try to plan anything and I'm already feeling like this is going to turn into some sort of competition of whoever has a baby first will be the one who my mom will help and the other person is just going to be SOL and I'm resenting it. When I was pg with my first, my cousin found out she was pg too. Her edd was several wks after mine, but her son was born premature. It was a big joke that they, "beat" us and we, "copied" them, b/c we had a boy, just like they did. What is the deal with family acting like idiots when there are two women who are both pregnant and due about the same time???