Oh I can so relate!! I have cursed biology many times for this exact reason!! It does seem like a cruel trick, that for many women our desire is so intricately related to fluctuating hormones. It's a great source of frustration for me.
Originally Posted by hollytheteacher
I TOTALLY ONE HUNDRED THOUSAND PERCENT AGREE!
During bfing before I got my cycles back I had zero interest. I couldn't even fathom the idea of it. lol.
Now that my cycles are back, I am SO SO SO in the mood around ovulation and so NOT in the mood on the "safe" days. Especially since the "safe" days tend to be the, uh, dry-ish days.
Even though we have both LOGICALLY decided to wait til ds is 3 to ttc number 2, i get SO caught up in the hormones that around O i'm always like, well maybe we should just say SCREW it and dtd anyway! lol. Dh looks at my like i'm nuts and totally knows it is the not-safe time to dtd! lol