I don't know... maybe I'm trying to put him in it too young. He's now 14 weeks and 14 lbs. He really likes facing forward in the Baby Bjorn (but it's hard on my back--no lumbar support). <i>I</i> like the Ergo, but he doesn't. Do you think he'll always hate the Ergo (cause he can't see where he's going)? Or will it be better when he's a bit bigger?