OP, my suggestion is that your husband change his talk at work. If asked if there's any sleep problems, he can simply say "nope". If asked if your child is sleeping through the night, he can reply "as well as any __ month old". The change the subject.
If mom is harder to wake than dad, dad would be woken if the baby is in another room, too. My point is any sleeping arrangement can have problems.
If a squirmy child is bothering dad, put a bed rail on one side of the bed and the child between mom and rail. That should help dad. If the child is noisy, then maybe mom and child sleep in the child's room during the week, giving dad better sleep when working. Weekends can be family time. Flexibilty and creativity are key for good parenting, in general. Get a good understanding of the problem to start. Then look for solutions.
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