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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>LilMommaR</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1282202/anyone-having-contractions#post_16078868"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border:0px solid;"></a><br><br><p><br>
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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>TyrantOfTheWeek</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1282202/anyone-having-contractions#post_16078643"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border:0px solid;"></a><br><br><br><br><br><p>My midwife doesn't check, so I have no idea if I am dilating or effacing. My DH doesn't know what he is feeling for, and I can't reach. <span><img alt="headscratch.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/headscratch.gif"></span></p>
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Same here!! Well, either I can't reach or I have no idea what I'm feeling for. I've tried to read every guide to finding my cervix, but it is all pretty worthless for me in the end because I still have no idea.</p>
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<br><br><p>At this point, it all pretty much feels the same to me. Soft and mushy. I could never do the cervix check thing even when I was charting...Either I just have a really long 'gina or my fingers are too short...</p>