My guys are 41/2 and 9 months. Have you hooked up with the A.A.Co. group? I was going to meet with them yesterday but really needed to go the the lib. I might next time. They are part of this tribe. I might try next week so maybe I'll meet you there.
You won't see me there yet, because I currently live in Chicago! Right now we have an accepted offer on the house in Davidsonville (it's in the south part, so we are probably more than 10 minutes from Crofton, but it's probably within 20 to 30 minutes from us, depending on where in Crofton you are.
We're just waiting for our house to sell here. We hope to be there by early August. I do plan on attending one of the MDC playgroup meetings once I move, though. One way or another, I'd love to get together sometime. It sounds like our boys are in a good play age-range. Your younger son and mine are just a few months apart.