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Anyone planning on doing EC?

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To be honest, I really had no idea at all about EC when my son was born. I had heard of it here and there but didn't know what it meant or how it could ever be possible. I have become more interested in learning about it this time around and have been lurking at the EC boards, gathering info and trying to make up my mind. Anyone else here pondering this? Or had past successes? I just don't know what to do!!
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We did late and lazy EC with DS. We started around 7 months and really just for #2. By 13 months he would tell us he had to go potty and walk to the bathroom. He is 2 now and hasn't pooped in his diaper in a very long time. We are still working on pee. With the new baby I am thinking of starting earlier. Like 4 months or so. It ended up be a lot easier than I thought it would be.
We will be! It'll be more likely part-time EC, though, as logistically, it'll be hard to not have baby in diapers when I bring baby with me to work.

We did it last time, and ds was totally diaper free by a year (of course, we still had occasional misses...but that's not a big deal). He stayed dry at night by around 7 months.
We will probably be doing it part time since I work outside the home. I am kind of wishing I had known about it when I had DS. He is just about to turn 2 and will have absolutely nothing to do with the potty.
Basically... I am too lazy to do EC. There, I said it.
I will be using fluffy cloth diapers and letting my babe completely potty train himself without me asking him all the time "do you need to go potty?" or doing other things I have seen potty training mothers and fathers do, just like I did with my daughter! And yes, once again I am LAZY
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Nope. I didn't do it with DD. She began telling us when she just peed around 18 months and we bought a potty. I took things really slowly, and she was in underwear right at 2. I had a friend who did EC with her DD (1 month younger than DD), and she spent sooooo much time doing EC. The sad thing was that my DD was in underwear full time MUCH earlier than her DD. (Her DD was 2.5.) I think it must have become a battle or something. (She's pregnant again and I wonder if she will do EC this time since half of her DD's peers were potty learned by the time her DD finally was.)
Definitely! Probably a little more easy going with it in the infant stage though. I didn't learn about EC until my DD was 11 months old. Well, we started EC when she was 11 months old (even though I worked part-time outside the home- my DH did it while I was gone even though he claimed he couldn't, he rocked at it!) and DD was completely in underwear and potty learned by 15/16 months. She started by signing the ASL sign for "toilet" when she had to go and as her language progressed would just tell us when she had to go. She was dry at night by a little past a year I'd say.

She turned two the end of Feb and I can't even remember what diapers are like!! I didn't even really have to change toddler poopy diapers for that long! People are STILL amazed that my 2year old is potty trained, but it's kind of old news to me since she's been in underwear fulltime for 11 months or so now.

I'm having a boy this time and I hear they are harder in this aspect... my DD was so ridiculously easy. Yes, we did have some pee on the floor if she didn't tell me in time for those months we were learning, but maybe because she was vocal and so into communicating so early we just picked it up really quickly.

I encourage everyone to try it, even if only part-time. If you leave your child in a diaper they loose that sense of when they are going and the longer you wait I feel like the harder it is for them to relearn that sense of knowing when they are going that they are innately born with (my mom grew up in west africa- they didn't have diapers and the women there would just know when their babies would have to go and hold them over the side of the road).
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My husband and I have our last homebirth class next weekend and my midwife is bringing in an EC expert to talk to us about it and offer information and advice or whatever. I'm extremely curious about it. To be honest with you, neither my husband nor I had ever heard about it, but we are extremely curious. We are planning on using cloth diapers and since I'll be a SAHM, it sounds like something we should definitely consider. I'd really like to hear more from parents how use EC and what they think about it.
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Basically... I am too lazy to do EC. There, I said it.
I will be using fluffy cloth diapers and letting my babe completely potty train himself without me asking him all the time "do you need to go potty?" or doing other things I have seen potty training mothers and fathers do, just like I did with my daughter! And yes, once again I am LAZY

I always thought that the reason I did EC was that I was too lazy....to deal with potty training later, and to be washing tons of diapers.
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I never dealt with potty training. My daughter had a problem where she didn't empty her bladder all the way (thus causing UTI and bloody urine), and the doctor told me NEVER TRY TO POTTY TRAIN THIS CHILD.... when she does it on her own, she should grow out of this. So we never potty trained. One day when she was 2 1/2 she said 'I want a teeny tiny potty just for me' so I took her to the store and let her pick one out. Then the next day she said 'I want teeny tiny panties just for me' so again to the store and she picked out panties. That was it. The end.

I have known some ECers and it seemed to me like they were running to the toilet or sink a lot which just is NOT something I can do, having MS and not being the most stable of walkers. In fact I bought a bassinet that rolls to be able to put my son in and push him around the house so if I fall the odds of him getting hurt are drastically lower than if I had him in a sling. Once I get to my destination then I will put him back in a sling or in my arms.

Diapers never seemed like a chore to me, and I got a lot of pleasure out of watching nasty diapers come out white and smelling good and fluffy when I was done washing them. LOL!
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I should clarify. We AP with our daughter and will with our son (extended breastfeeding, family bedding, etc). The bassinet is only because I feel it is a safe way to transport him from room to room in case I fall. If that makes any sense. LOL!
I am planning on it. I started ec w/ my ds when he was about one b/c he had a terrible diaper rash. Food allergies made it take longer for him to be continent than I think it would have if we weren't dealing w/ it. But the last time he had a bm in his diaper he was about 15 months or so (my memory of the exact age is a bit fuzzy). So, not having to wipe a poopy bottom for years is motivation for me.

I'm a bit nervous about nighttime ec but also think that it will make for more peaceful nights since I attribute a bunch of the night waking of both dc's to having to pee/poop vs. needing to nurse or some other need. So, I'm hoping we'll get more sleep this time around.

Sus
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I should clarify. We AP with our daughter and will with our son (extended breastfeeding, family bedding, etc). The bassinet is only because I feel it is a safe way to transport him from room to room in case I fall. If that makes any sense. LOL!
I just wanted to say that I think it's great that you've found a way to meet the needs of you & your child/ren at the same time. How lucky your children are to have you!

Sus
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Thanks Sus. I appreciate that. I actually fought with myself over buying a bassinet and what that would mean as when I had my daughter we basically had diapers, clothes, a swing, and my breasts. LOL! Then I decided I have to choose what is right for me and my family... and it might change.
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I'm a bit nervous about nighttime ec but also think that it will make for more peaceful nights since I attribute a bunch of the night waking of both dc's to having to pee/poop vs. needing to nurse or some other need. So, I'm hoping we'll get more sleep this time around.

Sus
We didn't really worry about night-time EC. Who knows- I might this time- but I just really did EC during the day and after not too long she was holding it all night and going to the bathroom when we woke up in the morning. I think once babies "get" that they can hold it- they do! Sometimes still my 2 yr old will wake up needing to go to the bathroom, but she always comes and finds me and tells me she has to go.

And yeah... I think I'm more too lazy to change diapers. Plus, I feel like EC is just so natural and makes so much sense. Why train a baby to constantly eliminate in a diaper if you can help them retain the ability to know when they are going (why do you think newborns always seem to pee as soon as their diaper is removed?).
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Like PP, I think we will be trying this part-time. It makes more sense to me to have open comunication about how the bathroom works and what it is used for from the beginning. I agree- training a baby to go in a diaper and then re-training not to seems like lots of counterproductive work for both of us!
I just finished reading Diaper Free Baby. I'll definitely be trying out some of the techniques, at least part time. I don't know how gung-ho I'll be about it, but I'm planning on just playing it by ear, seeing how it fits into our lifestyle. I read the book because I at least wanted to know more about the option before dismissing it entirely.
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Originally Posted by gossamerwindweb View Post
Basically... I am too lazy to do EC. There, I said it.
I will be using fluffy cloth diapers and letting my babe completely potty train himself without me asking him all the time "do you need to go potty?" or doing other things I have seen potty training mothers and fathers do, just like I did with my daughter! And yes, once again I am LAZY

See, this is exactly how I am feeling...it seems like so much more work and I am not sure why. I am sure it is like anything else - a little overwhelming at first but once it becomes part of the usual routine it's just fine. When my son was about 3 months old I made the transition to cloth diapers. That seemed REALLY overwhelming at first but now I couldn't imagine using disposables ever again. It was so much easier than I thought it would be.
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tracymom- that's how I felt, I knew about EC but didn't start with my DD until she was considered a "late" ECer. And once I started I was like "why on earth didn't I do this always?!" It's really not that hard! But I guess it depends on your personality maybe? I mean, I didn't stress when she's have a miss (I remember one time her standing and peeing on the floor at a burrito shop haha), we'd just simply talk about it, change her pants, and move on. Try for next time. My sis in law as a DD a few weeks older than my DD and always made comments about how much "work" EC was when I started it with DD, but now she has a newborn and a toddler butt to change and potty training to work through and I have happily been done with diapers for almost a year.
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