We just went to the dentist today. We don't like him. Our insurance covers only him in this area. I guess we'll have to start paying out of pocket. We asked him questions that he didn't answer. I asked about white fillings and he said they'll try it but use anything if they have to. Then on my way out I overheard one of the assistants talking to a mom in the waiting room, saying "we do sliver fillings with baby teeth". I felt they were being very decieving and dishonest with me.
He said they have chased kids around the office before!!!! This one totally freaked me out. But on the brighter side, ds LOVED the assistant. He did everything she asked him to do. However, she won't be doing the fillings obviously. He also told us to get flouride supplements. This shows me he's not current on recent (?) findings that flouride supplements aren't helpful at all. He didn't mention anything about flouride treatments in the office.
Turns out, ds has six cavities. And pretty bad too. He doesn't complain about pain though.
I really don't want to do fillings at all. Is there any reason I should even consider it? In my son's case, the problem is obviously systemic, so filling cavities isn't going to "fix" the problem. I feel like our primary focus is going to be to maximize his overall health, and plastic or mercury in the mouth will just counter that.
I still want to work with a dentist. Is there a way to find out about a dentist BEFORE seeing him? With this office, they're not willing to work with us unless we do exactly what they tell us.
I asked him what exactly they would be doing when filling his teeth and he told me I shouldn't worry about, that we should trust them, they know what they're doing!! He was so rude.
When I was seen by (another) assistant, I told her I didn't want x-rays. She said "well if you want us to work on you, you're going to have to have them". This was the first thing that she said to me, no judging first if I needed them for any particular condition.
They also x-rayed my son without asking us first (dh was in the room with him).
I feel so crappy, sorry for ranting...