n groups, I get asked all the time if consequences are punitive. It depends. Consequences are natural outcomes that occur if a parent intervenes or not. Yes, consequences happen to kids all the time when they are out and about in the world. The rest of the world will issue consequences to your child, but only you, as the parent, will take the time and effort to problem-solve with them. Children will get consequences from teachers, coaches, police, and other adults. That's okay. Those people are not building a life-long relationship with your child. You are. When you take the time and effort to problem-solve, you are giving your child valuable life and relationship skills - negotiation. Your communication lines will remain open and you will enjoy a wonderful relationship with your child. Here are the differences between consequences issued by a parent in the name of punishment, and problem-solving which is a form of non-punitive discipline.
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