my toddler asks me this all of the time, especially when he's done something he knows he shouldn't do or when i'm visibly rattled. he hit me in the face and then asked me if i was happy. i wouldn't let him have ice cream and while he was crying, he asked me if i was happy. i'm generally a very happy person, but sometimes, like when he hits me, i'm not happy. i don't want him to feel responsible for my happiness, but how do i respond when he's gotten into mischief and then asks me if i'm happy?