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Are you prepared for breastfeeding?

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Breastfeeding is totally natural but...breastfeeding is also a culturally transmitted practice. Although a lot of progress has been made, there are lots of factors that undermine breastfeeding in our culture and many women don't have adequate support to breastfeed successfully.
  • Have you read about breastfeeding and do you have an idea of what to expect? You won't have much time to research after the baby comes...I recommend a good reading of the kellymom web site.
  • Have you been to a LLL meeting to get a feel for whether that would be a good resource for you?
  • Do you have contact info for local lactation consultants and resource people in case of problems?
  • Are your birth plans optimal for successful initiation of breastfeeding?
  • If you've successfully breastfed before, are you prepared for the possibility of different experiences this time around?
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I sure wasn't prepared last time! Though I had done quite a bit of reading, with dd we had such tough nursing problems in the beginning, and I just hadn't really thought beforehand about what to do if that happened.

But this time I'm ready! I've got the pump standing by if needed (I pray it won't be!), LLL phone numbers, and all the knowledge/experience I've gained from nursing dd.

I still remember at the end of my last pregnancy when my midwife gave me a card with the local LLL leaders' phone numbers, thinking, "I'm not gonna need this." Boy, did I learn a lesson! Now I'm eternally gratefully for LLL, because without experienced, knowledgable women like them, I'm afraid dd would have lived on formula instead of mama's milk.
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I had alot of support w/ DD and breastfeeding her came so natural for me. She nursed like a pro since she was born.
I look forward to breastfeeding again especially since I already know what to expect. The other night I leaked a little colostrum (sp?) out! I was like, "Yay, it's getting ready!" (
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Totally prepared here as well.

I have read the books and attended 2 LLL meetings already. Will be able to attend 2 more before baby is due. I can call the LLL leader if I need personalized help.
My midwives will stick around for a minimum of 3 hours to ensure baby and I are good to go after birth and will come back to check on us the next day if needed and a week later.
Also got contact info for a lactation consultant from my Bradley instructor in case none of the other resources works for us.
I also did a quick check to see what BF might be like and was happy to see we are already producing something (colostrum I assume).
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yup
Or rather - as ready as I can be


Have been to one LLL meeting (ours are once a month -- couldn't make the April one, but I'm planning on going to the May meeting).

Have read up on breastfeeding and am expecting the expected and unexpected... kellymom is a good site!

My Bradley instructor and my MW are both LLL mamas. And I know a couple of other LLL mamas personally. So, I think I'm good to go, there.

(Haven't decided about buying a pump yet. Part of me really doesn't feel like I need it. But then some friends have told me that sometimes it's helpful for engorgement... I'm thinking if I need it, I'll send DH out to BRU to get it! Or dude, make him help a mama out
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As ready as I can be. Bfing ds was fairly uneventful. It took a long time for my milk to come in, but once it did, it was super plentiful. Granted, I got thrush, and didn't realize what it was for weeks. By the time I figured it out, my nipples were purple, I couldn't bf without painkillers, and it took 6 months to eradicate. I'm taking probiotics from the get go this time around. I just have an irrational fear that dd won't latch for some reason. But, I'm very involved in my LLL group, and I have the numbers for 4 leaders on my hospital phone list.

About pumps, I think it's a good idea to at least have a manual Avent Isis or Medela Harmony lying around.

I didn't have a breastpump when ds was born. When my milk finally came in almost 6 days later, it came in with a vengeance. My breasts were like boulders. It was sooo painful. I sent ds out to the only place in town that sold an Isis (the Rite-Aid, it was a really small town). It's a good think it was still before 9pm, because otherwise he would have been driving 40 minutes each way to the nearest Target.

If you live in a city that has a BRU or Target, then I wouldn't worry about having one on hand, but if you live in a small town, you may want to rethink it.
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We have both BRU and Target, so I'm not too worried...
I'm as prepared as I can be. I have had good and bad experiences. First two refused to latch, even after working 6 weeks with an LC, so I exclusively pumped for them. Last baby was a nursing champ! The only thing I don't have is an electric pump in the case of absolute failure as with the first two.
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I think I'm about as ready as I can be... I've been to an "infant feeding" class (as a replacement for a friend's husband) plus 3 LLL meetings, going to a 4th next week (hopefully dragging along the friend from above!
) I read the Sears BFing book and most of The Womanly Art, plus a good chunk of kellymom (thanks for the reminder, though, I'll spend some more quality time over there, she has a GREAT site!)... have support from DH and my Mom (who was a LLL member and breastfed me until it hurt b/c she was pg with my sister - about 2-2 1/2 years, pretty good for the early 70s!!) Have phone numbers of several LLL leaders, our supportive MWs and our Pediatrician who is very pro-BFing. Have a hand-me-down Medela pump which I'm planning to bring to the next LLL meeting so that they can show me how to use it/what I'll need. And I've had a little colostrum for a month or so now!

WHEW!

Plus, I'm really looking forward to it!
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Originally Posted by Ksenia
If you've successfully breastfed before, are you prepared for the possibility of different experiences this time around?
No, and I've actually never considered that possibility. When I was pregnant with #1, I was constantly worrying that I'd have every problem in the book when it came to breastfeeding and it ended up being one of the easiest things I ever did. Same with #2. Now I guess I expect it to be easy, but I never thought about problems coming up. Thanks for that reminder.
We had an awful, awful time trying to breastfeed with DS.

This time, I have read up on everything. I have the LC's number by the phone. My doctor said I can stop by any time during office hours to ask questions, and he is *awesome* (his wife was a LLL leader for many, many years too)

In case I do have supply issues like last time, i have prescriptions for a hospital-grade pump and domperidone sitting in my file folder. I also have mother's milk tea waiting for me in the freezer. In 2 weeks, i will go to the breastfeeding education class offered at the health unit, mostly just to touch base with the other LC in town.

I haven't been to any LLL meetings because they are on the other side of town, meet at an inconvenient time and I just can't make it.

Oh, and my midwife will make home visits, and make sure we are doing well for the first couple weeks.

I guess I am as ready as I can possibly be.
I'm not feeling especially ready. For the normal part, yes, but for some weird circumstance, not really.

I have to be back in class one or two weeks after the birth, for two three hour classes a week. We have a pump on the way, that I hope works out. It's FFS from an MDC mama, so I hope it's ok. I hope I'm not one of those women who has trouble pumping.

We need to figure out what feeding system we will use during separations from baby int hose very early weeks. We'd like to hold off the artificial nipples for the first several weeks, so DH wants to learn cup- or spoon-feeding, but we haven't done anything on that other than make the decision. I guess he can just grab a spoon and figure it out.

I'd like to try taking the babe to class with me, but I fear that I will encounter too much opposition from my classmates. NIPing can wait until I know what I'm doing, I guess, and DH will never be too far away with the baby so I can try to nurse on class breaks. We'll see. I can't really make specific plans until I know who my profs are, which classrooms I'll be in.

And I'm really hoping to start pumping right from the beginning so I can donate any surplus. I'm a bit nervous about creating over-supply problems and learning how to pump effectively.

It's all good though. We'll figure it out.
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Well my first DS is still nursing so I guess I'm prepared as I'll ever be
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I did buy a new pillow, a bosom baby from Babycenter. I use it to sleep right now and I love how soft it is. I think it'll be much better than the Boppy I had the first time around. http://tinyurl.com/p4hlp My sister bought me a Medela nursing stooll. I need to dig the glider that SIL gave me out of the garage. I also need to find the pump I have and make sure it's in an easy access place. I pumped a few times in the beginning with DS because I was so freaking engorged and the baby wouldn't latch on. I don't know if I'll be as engorged if I am tandem nursing. I also need to buy some lasinoh and nursing pads.

I have a ton of nursing books and I've been looking through them as a "refresher". My biggest problem with DS in the beginning was proper positioning. It's so hard with their floppy little heads. I'm hoping the new pillow and stool will make it easier this time around.

I'm a regular at LLL already. I can't wait to show off my newborn
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I'm about as ready as I can be I think. I haven't been to any LLL meetings b/c as a PP mentioned the group nearest to me is still too far and doesn't meet at a time that's good for me. My good friend is part of a LLL group though and I think she's trying to become a leader as well so that's cool. She just weaned her son maybe a month and a half or so ago at the age of 3 (she spent about 5 years straight nursing) as well. I trust her advice.

I've been doing lots of reading. I bought 2 pairs of nursing pads, think I'm gonna need more but want to see how I like these particular ones 1st. I want to get one of the Avent handhelds so that in case I need it I won't have to send my poor hubby out trying to hunt one down. I also need a good nipple cream.

I'm thinking everything will be great. We'll see how this adventure unfolds!
We're picking up our isis iq duo on Sat after the BRU baby shower in our local store.... so hoping they'll have some good coupon when we go...
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I am so excited to eat like a pig and still lose weight
!! And of course all the other good things about it
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Katie
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I'm a still nursing Mama too, and as ready as I think I can be. I'm prepared with my thrush remedies and got my breastfeeding basket together again. It holds my thrush remedies, a bottle of water, nursing pads, an entertaining book and a breastfeeding reference book and followed me everywhere for the first three months last time around. I'm thinking of updating my BFing reference book though, last time it was "So That's What They're For" which was great for me as a fairly mainstream beginner (
). Re-reading it has been a trip! I'm thinking something a little more in depth may be good this time around, well besides "Adventures in Tandem Nursing" which I have and am reading now.

Any suggestions?
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Originally Posted by nitareality
I'm prepared with my thrush remedies ...
Is this something you make yourself? I'm curious what's involved and want to be proactive! Thanks!
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Originally Posted by tie-dyed
I'd like to try taking the babe to class with me, but I fear that I will encounter too much opposition from my classmates. NIPing can wait until I know what I'm doing, I guess, and DH will never be too far away with the baby so I can try to nurse on class breaks.
I know women who have had awesome experiences with taking their newborns to classes and nursing them. People love babies and are very tolerant. Everyone will understand your dilemma and make allowances for your situation. IMO, separation from mama is really tough on infants in the first months and being a student is certainly more ideal than being in the workplace.
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Originally Posted by Ksenia
I know women who have had awesome experiences with taking their newborns to classes and nursing them. People love babies and are very tolerant. Everyone will understand your dilemma and make allowances for your situation. IMO, separation from mama is really tough on infants in the first months and being a student is certainly more ideal than being in the workplace.
ITA. ALso, if you have a great sling and a nursing top most people probably won't even know you are nursing.
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