well, just in case, this is what one of the military mamas I know sent me
if she is military, then she needs to get ahold of EFMP. They do have some stuff. There is a support group on post. They have meetings and outings and stuff. They also have a special needs care person thingy that is for military. I believe. I would have to look that information up though. But the EFMP would be able to give her all this information and more.
Here is the link to the EFMP webpage.
http://www.blissmwr .com/csc/ EFMP2.htm