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<p>I'm venting here because the STBX just makes me Sooooooooo angry. And the things he does .... I mean, I would not let my children go to a crazy person's house but because he's their dad, I have to.</p>
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<p>- He's kept the little one's rain coat and winter coat I bought. I asked my daughter to bring them back. His response: "She needs to ask me." wtf? It's been 6 degrees out and the kid gets sent to me with a sweatshirt. Of course, my DD has a new winter coat he bought her & he's always shown her favortism.</p>
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<p>- The kids wanted to go to their friend's birthday party tonight, when he's supposed to have them. First his response was "I don't know if DD is telling the truth (about the bday party)" then when DD called today to say she and her brother wanted to go, he went all guilty and said,"Well, I was making plans ..." Um, aren't the KIDS supposed to come first?? It's not like they get invited to a birthday party all that often - I think this is the second or third in my daughter's entire life.</p>
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<p>He is entirely disrespectful of the kids. He's made them move into his gf's house (after only meeting her 9 months ago), he gave away my DD's dog to the gf's 15 yo son, he's calling my DS by his given name instead of his nickname that we've always called him even though my DS says he wants to be called by the nickname. AUUUUUGGGGHHHH.</p>
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<p>I really try not to but I hate this guy. I mean, I really, really hate him. It is an entire waste of my energy, like now. I cannot get past how he treats the kids, using them as pawns in this divorce to try and make out like he's a good dad. I've already been told their tree is full of presents for the kids - we never did that, instead giving the kids stockings and one big present because I want them to know people out there don't even have electricity or food or coats much less gobs of plastic crap toys. But he's got to be the Disneyland Dad!</p>
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<p>At present, he has not paid the property taxes on this house. So my house gets sold for taxes and the kids and I have no where to live come February? That's what being a good dad is? (I know what you'll say ... I'm waiting to get before a judge for the answer to this one, whenever that'll be)</p>
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<p><span><img alt="hopmad.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/hopmad.gif">   I feel ya. He sounds like a classic.</span></p>
 
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