I'm all about following the baby's cues, etc. So...why am I SO SAD that my dd doesn't want to (or can't) cosleep? Maybe b/c I feel like she's going to be our last? I don't know, but I'm wondering if you all see cosleeping as you see breastfeeding...that it is NATURAL for them to do it, and unnatural for a baby to want to be alone when she sleeps. She has coslept part-time, but is now 9 mos. and cries and flails around when I try to keep her in our bed. She's a busy baby and I'm wondering if other "busy babies" cosleep. But, I can HARDLY get her to nurse to sleep anymore. She nurses for nutrition and that's IT!! So, I'm also worried about early weaning (see my other threads!!)So, am I giving up too early, or should I follow her cues? When she wakes up to nurse, she'll nurse in bed with me, but when she's done...she's done and won't go to sleep again (at 3 am) unless I put her back in her bed. Any thoughts?