it's not comfortable for little ones for a lot of reasons for mama to bend at the waist. try squatting/bending at the knee/kneeling down instead. i spend all of easter sunday with my DH and the kids planting blueberry bushes and weeding and such with the baby on my back, but if i would forget and lean over she squawked and pulled my hair to remind me LOL it's better for your body as well as hers to get out of the habit of bending at the hip anyway.