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<div>Originally Posted by <strong>chiromama</strong></div>
<div style="font-style:italic;">Ok there is such a thing as too much baby wearing... it happens two weeks after major abdomenal surgery. Bleeding is back and i'm in pain <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"></div>
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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> You know, I was thinking reading about the other ladies here saying all the stuff they were doing that I felt like a lazy slob, The most I've done since I got home from the hospital is put away a basket of clean folded laundry and unload the clean dishes from the dishwasher... on separate days...then I remembered, "Hey! You had major abdominal surgery 10 days ago girl, cut yourself some slack!"<br><br>
So I'm directing that comment at you, too! Glad you're gonna lay low tomorrow...and you should do the same for more than just tomorrow, give it a few days...I know it's hard, when you're used to doing things (that was honestly my main complaint this pregnancy, I felt "frail" comparatively since I usually do everything and anything I want to whenever I want to) it's so hard to force yourself to cut back, and you even feel guilty, huh?<br><br>
Fortunately, DH is very domestic <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/winky.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Wink"> and has been picking up my slack for about a month now since I was put on modified bedrest...in a couple weeks I'll be back to normal and resume my own duties and I'm sure he'll be thrilled (we usually split things up anyway, so it's not like he'll won't be doing anything anymore)....and I'll be thrilled too - I know intellectually it's normal for me to take it easy for a little while longer, but it's still driving me nuts mentally and physically.<br><br>
Please take care of yourself!!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">