I have been wear my lo in a ringsling pretty much from day one. The only way she's ever happy is a tummy to tummy carry. Fast forward a few months and she is getting a little to long for that one. Here is my issue, I am a larger lady not huge but defiantly not skinny, like a size 16. I feel like I am going to pop her little legs out of her sockets if I wrap them around my waist. SO what do you do about that, if anything. Also, I cloth diaper and I just feel like she doesn't get great range of motion with the prefolds that we use. When I try to wear her facing out I just feel like I can’t get her legs higher than her butt because of the diaper and she just don’t seem comfortable. Ok, she doesn’t cry or anything I just don’t think she can be comfy. Am I doing something wrong there? I also have a moby wrap, but once again, I just can't wrap her legs around me. When I try she always ends up with her little legs laying against me in a froggy pose, feet sticking out of moby and all, kwim? All videos and instructions say wrap legs around, what do you do if you can't? Any advice will be great. TIA.