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<p>I have fibromyalgia, Ehlers Danlos Syndrome (either hypermobility type or a classic type, waiting for genetic testing) and possible Osteo-Arthritis (there is also a possibility of kidney/bladder issues, I produce too many oxalate crystals and it seems to have made my kidneys 'bumpy')</p>
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<p>Anyway, my back is killing me, I have always had back problems but this past year it has reached a point where i do not know what t do with myself, it is bringing me to tears and I spend most of my time lieing down as a result because I cannot tolerate standing/walking etc (although I have no choice when it comes to the school run and I can't get help for getting the kids to school, I would use the bus but that would involve me walking half way to school anyway and the bumpy, crowded bus doesn't improve matters).</p>
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<p>I get major back spasms at night, have tried quinine but it doesn't do much. I just don't know where to go from here and the Docs are dubious about increasing my pain meds (currently on Oramorph, buperenorphine, oxycodone, paracetamol, ibuprofen and sertraline for depression as well as the odd sleeping tablet) and a ignocaine infusion every 10 weeks. I don't want a lecture on taking pain meds because to be honest, without the painmeds, my life would be intolerable (suicidal thoughts are already something I have to suffer with, I just cannot see how I can cope with this for years to come).</p>
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<p>I have tried physio, swimming, TENS, heat pads, hot water bottles, baths, herbs etc either it doesn't work or the effects simply do not last long enough. I get no release, not even at night where I am woken with it frequently (as well as other issues, night time seems to be the worst for dislocations, mainly jaw, shoulders and knees).</p>
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<p>Is it being caused by the fibro/EDS etc or is it something else? There has to be something I can do thats going to help, the pain kilers do help, sleeping tablets seem to help more but I suffer more the next day if I have them so I usually have to toss up getting an ok night and a crap following day or a crap night and an ok following day.</p>
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<p>This is driving me nuts, walking around would help ease it but even thats not doing anything these days. Apparently I looked so awful on the bus today (I went into town later on so didn't have to deal with the added issues of a crowded rush hour bus) that an old couple asked whether I was ok and I did need someone to hep me, it was kinda sweet yet very embarassing at the same time.</p>
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<p>An occupational therapist came round yesterday and they are going to do a few things around my home to make life a bit easier, unfortuantely the stupid benefit doctor decided that I had nothing wrong with me so now I have no disability benefits coming in. Things are kinda sucking.</p>
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<p>At the moment my back is painful to even touch. I can't afford a chiropractor, osteopath, accupuncturist etc (thanks to the stupid benefits system in this stupid country, everyone seems to think there are a bunch of people out defrauding disability living allowance and yet I know so many people who should be on it who can't get it because its so hard to get).</p>
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<p>There has to be something I can do myself that will help, anyone got any ideas??????</p>
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<p>Anyway, my back is killing me, I have always had back problems but this past year it has reached a point where i do not know what t do with myself, it is bringing me to tears and I spend most of my time lieing down as a result because I cannot tolerate standing/walking etc (although I have no choice when it comes to the school run and I can't get help for getting the kids to school, I would use the bus but that would involve me walking half way to school anyway and the bumpy, crowded bus doesn't improve matters).</p>
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<p>I get major back spasms at night, have tried quinine but it doesn't do much. I just don't know where to go from here and the Docs are dubious about increasing my pain meds (currently on Oramorph, buperenorphine, oxycodone, paracetamol, ibuprofen and sertraline for depression as well as the odd sleeping tablet) and a ignocaine infusion every 10 weeks. I don't want a lecture on taking pain meds because to be honest, without the painmeds, my life would be intolerable (suicidal thoughts are already something I have to suffer with, I just cannot see how I can cope with this for years to come).</p>
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<p>I have tried physio, swimming, TENS, heat pads, hot water bottles, baths, herbs etc either it doesn't work or the effects simply do not last long enough. I get no release, not even at night where I am woken with it frequently (as well as other issues, night time seems to be the worst for dislocations, mainly jaw, shoulders and knees).</p>
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<p>Is it being caused by the fibro/EDS etc or is it something else? There has to be something I can do thats going to help, the pain kilers do help, sleeping tablets seem to help more but I suffer more the next day if I have them so I usually have to toss up getting an ok night and a crap following day or a crap night and an ok following day.</p>
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<p>This is driving me nuts, walking around would help ease it but even thats not doing anything these days. Apparently I looked so awful on the bus today (I went into town later on so didn't have to deal with the added issues of a crowded rush hour bus) that an old couple asked whether I was ok and I did need someone to hep me, it was kinda sweet yet very embarassing at the same time.</p>
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<p>An occupational therapist came round yesterday and they are going to do a few things around my home to make life a bit easier, unfortuantely the stupid benefit doctor decided that I had nothing wrong with me so now I have no disability benefits coming in. Things are kinda sucking.</p>
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<p>At the moment my back is painful to even touch. I can't afford a chiropractor, osteopath, accupuncturist etc (thanks to the stupid benefits system in this stupid country, everyone seems to think there are a bunch of people out defrauding disability living allowance and yet I know so many people who should be on it who can't get it because its so hard to get).</p>
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<p>There has to be something I can do myself that will help, anyone got any ideas??????</p>