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Huh...we just had a conversation at work re: bumps. I had mentioned that I wouldn't be buying a "maternity" bathing suit since both my bikini top and bottom are adjustable and I would just continue to wear that one.<br><br>
Two of the girls in my office were like: Shocked and completely icked out that I would consider bearing my pregnant belleh. To me, I don't see it as a big deal at all. I've seen lots of pregnant women wearing tank tops or bandeaus or bikinis at the beach and they all looked fabulous!!<br><br>
What's your take???
 

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Well, I don't wear bikinis personally, but I have no problem with pregnant women bearing their beautiful bellies at the beach or anywhere. I think it's awesome! I have a tankini that I will continue to wear (I think, unless it doesn't work) and I know when my belly gets a bit bigger, it won't cover my belly completely.
 

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i honestly have issues w/women (mostly teenagers) who dress like hookers even though they are pg...it's just, idk...degrading? it takes away from the beauty of the bump.<br><br>
there was one girl at walmart the other day, in the COMPLETE school-girl outfit and her tummy hanging out. it looked rather trashy...<br><br>
i bought an AWESOME suit @ old navy maternity when i was pg w/natalie. it only cost like $16 and it's so cute and shows off just the right amount to let ppl. know that i'm pg. i'm so glad i get to use it again!<br><br>
with that said...i'd love to see the bumps on here...but keep your school-girl outfits to yourself LOL<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/duck.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Duck">:
 

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I HATE one peice bathing suits -- i am long waisted and they either cut into my sholders or "other places" and I can't jump and move and play in them.<br><br>
I have NOT worn one since i was in grade school.<br><br>
I have a tank suit -- a sports bra style top with little boy shorts. -- it is more or less what i have always bought. i have ever worn any timy binkis either.<br><br>
I wore it summer of 2005 when i was getting big with DS<br><br>
I will wear it this summer.<br><br>
personally -- i think a pregant belly is CUTE. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> I like mine a lot.
 

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I think gigantic, bare bellies look hot! Can't wait until I have one to take to the beach. As for midriff-baring tops, well, it just depends.<br><br>
I'm not a fan of one-pieces, either. I decided to take my weekly pregnancy pics in the same bikini throughout the pregnancy, which I think will take a good dose of courage toward the end. Here's a slightly less brave version, at 7 weeks:<br><a href="http://i176.photobucket.com/albums/w182/veganjoy/100_2512_1.jpg" target="_blank">http://i176.photobucket.com/albums/w...100_2512_1.jpg</a>
 

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Oh - I think it's totally fine. I think preggo bellies are a beautiful thing. The only things is that something I feel like the woman in her bikini looks so uncomfortable and I feel bad/sore for her.
 

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Bikinis and pregnancy mix very well <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> Though I'm in Europe and most people wear bikinis regardless of age or figure... Why hide it if you're not ashamed of it?
 

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I think it's fine.. it is more about what you are comfortable wearing not what others think, I wear both, not sure what I will do with this one, prob whatever suit is in teh bag of clothes I am borrowing from my friend!! I'm not a fashionista or very picky about these things, I do ahve an outie tho and it becomes an OUTIE OUTIE when I am big so I am not sure how super attractive THAT would be in a two piece!!, DH used to ask me if it meant the turkey was done ! I am looking forward to looking definitely PG as opposed to just getting fat!
 

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I wont bare but its has zippo to do with pregnacy I just have flab and don't feel like flaunting it <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 

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I personally wouldn't because I have some stretch marks from my pregnancy with ds. But I don't think it looks bad if other people do. I think some of the two piece maternity suits look a little frumpy-with the longer tankinis.
 

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I have always LOVED baring my preggo belly!!! I just feel like I'm showing my baby to the world and relishing in my womanly figure. Nothing trashy about it- I think it's beautiful! Now....the teeny bopper chicks who are NOT preggo and have everything hanging out...that's NASTY! LOL
 

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If you are comfortable wearing a bikini before you were pregnant and still do once you are than do it. I don't see what is the difference. In both cases it's just the belly we are seeing. And I'm not talking about barely there bikinis, because those aren't nice either way IMO<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">I wont bare but its has zippo to do with pregnacy I just have flab and don't feel like flaunting it <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"></div>
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Me too! I am jealous of other preggo women who feel great wearing a bikini and showing off their beautiful belly though. I wish I felt more comfortable with my flab and stretchmarks.<br><br>
I do love that maternity clothes can be more fitted now though. 6 years ago with DS the shirts were like tents, like you were hiding your belly! Now they are fitted and you can see the beautiful round shape. That makes me happy. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">Me too! I am jealous of other preggo women who feel great wearing a bikini and showing off their beautiful belly though. I wish I felt more comfortable with my flab and stretchmarks.<br><br>
I do love that maternity clothes can be more fitted now though. 6 years ago with DS the shirts were like tents, like you were hiding your belly! Now they are fitted and you can see the beautiful round shape. That makes me happy. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"></div>
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Exactly how I feel! I've got a beautiful tree of stretchmarks on my belly from my DS. I got some sun on them last year (not from a bikini, just hiking my shirt up in the sun) and they all turned ugly red. So, we'll be keeping them under wraps this year.
 

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Me too I'm honored and thrilled with my pregnant form and will more so as I grow <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/loveeyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loveeyes">: I like how manernity now has nice items that allow us to be proud of our curves while still maintaining the modesty we desire. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/loveeyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loveeyes">:
 

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I love bikinis on pregnant women! I just think it's adorable. But there's a right time and a right place to show off the bump, I think... same goes for any non-preggo belly. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">Huh...we just had a conversation at work re: bumps. I had mentioned that I wouldn't be buying a "maternity" bathing suit since both my bikini top and bottom are adjustable and I would just continue to wear that one.<br><br>
Two of the girls in my office were like: Shocked and completely icked out that I would consider bearing my pregnant belleh. To me, I don't see it as a big deal at all. I've seen lots of pregnant women wearing tank tops or bandeaus or bikinis at the beach and they all looked fabulous!!<br><br>
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well i don't <i>have</i> a belly yet, but when i DO have one, i will be rocking my bikini like it's the next big thing. serious, it's just a baby, lol it's not like you're running around with your hooha out for the world to see!
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">well i don't <i>have</i> a belly yet, but when i DO have one, i will be rocking my bikini like it's the next big thing. serious, it's just a baby, lol it's not like you're running around with your hooha out for the world to see!</div>
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ha! This made me laugh aloud!<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 

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I think it is whatever you are comfortable in. I am with the earlier poster that because of my body type I have a hard time fitting in one pieces regardless. I think there is a difference in someone bearing their pg belly and clomping through the store dressed like a pregnant school girl...lol. I hope to be jogging in a sports bra and belly flying in the wind until my body says otherwise. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> (Which may have been yesterday...lol....not sure. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> )
 

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I totally agree -- while i lvoe my preggo body --and i think i look better 6 month preggo than NOT -- it is still "dressed like an adult" and not a 15 year old (course i won't let MY 15 yo dress that way either.... but you know what i mean <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> ).<br><br>
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