[guestmama9944]

I woke up this morning with that anxious, "What the (UAV) am I doing????

" feeling that I get when making big life changes. I began to think about how filing for divorce will affect my kids, now and in the future. Their father, who could barely be bothered by his kids when he's with me, supposedly wants them 50/50 every time we seperate and this is very hard on the girls. I began to think about how maybe, JUST MAYBE, my stbxh's problems aren't SO bad, how if I could just tolerate it for the sake of my children we'd all be.......

Totally and utterly miserable, just like last time and the time before that. Phew. Anxious feeling gone.

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I'd rather my kids *not* learn that a spouse (friend, adult, etc) can treat you badly and it's okay. It's definately not.

Who else is celebrating being better off today?

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[grass67hopper]

I'm with you on this one!

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Here's to empowerment!!!!