I know I still have lots of time to get ready for this as I am not due till Nov. but I have a few questions anyway.
Just a little bit of background so you know where I am coming from. I nursed my first exclusively for 4 months. (that was 9 yrs ago) He had reflux really bad and they encouraged me to mix rice cereal in with his milk to help it stay in his belly. After a few weeks of trying to pump and mix I just gave up and went to formula.
My second baby nursed all the time, with a very painful latch and would cry even after he was done eating. I know now that he had a tight frenulum and we probably could have continued if I had only had some advice in that dept. But at the time I just couldn't handle the pain and a screaming baby so we switched to formula at 2 mos.
Then I had my breast reduction. Best thing I ever did.
So when my third came along and my Dr said we just have to wait and see if everything will work I had no confidence at all. I pumped in the hospital because I was so worried my DD was not getting anything from me. Of course I just got a few drops of colostrum. I cried, thinking nothing was working, and gave up. Nurses didn't even try to tell me that was normal and to give it more time.
SO this time I am determined to breastfeed. I have set my goal for 6 mos so as not to overwhelm myself, thinking that when I get to 6 I will just keep going. I am still nervous about all the mechanics of my breasts working ok. I did experience engorgement and leaking with my last one so I know I make milk.
Is there anything I should do to prepare this time around? While I am in the hospital should I pump in between feedings to help my supply? Or should I assume everything is fine until we have an issue?
Sorry for the long post, I really don't have anyone in my circle of friends here who have done the whole nusing thing, and I am the ONLY person I know IRL who has had a reduction.
Thanks.
Just a little bit of background so you know where I am coming from. I nursed my first exclusively for 4 months. (that was 9 yrs ago) He had reflux really bad and they encouraged me to mix rice cereal in with his milk to help it stay in his belly. After a few weeks of trying to pump and mix I just gave up and went to formula.
My second baby nursed all the time, with a very painful latch and would cry even after he was done eating. I know now that he had a tight frenulum and we probably could have continued if I had only had some advice in that dept. But at the time I just couldn't handle the pain and a screaming baby so we switched to formula at 2 mos.
Then I had my breast reduction. Best thing I ever did.
So when my third came along and my Dr said we just have to wait and see if everything will work I had no confidence at all. I pumped in the hospital because I was so worried my DD was not getting anything from me. Of course I just got a few drops of colostrum. I cried, thinking nothing was working, and gave up. Nurses didn't even try to tell me that was normal and to give it more time.
SO this time I am determined to breastfeed. I have set my goal for 6 mos so as not to overwhelm myself, thinking that when I get to 6 I will just keep going. I am still nervous about all the mechanics of my breasts working ok. I did experience engorgement and leaking with my last one so I know I make milk.
Is there anything I should do to prepare this time around? While I am in the hospital should I pump in between feedings to help my supply? Or should I assume everything is fine until we have an issue?
Sorry for the long post, I really don't have anyone in my circle of friends here who have done the whole nusing thing, and I am the ONLY person I know IRL who has had a reduction.
Thanks.