Okay...lemme try to explain to you what to do.
An Onbu is diff than a Mei Tai and is tied slightly differently. OK. Doing the santa toss is the *perfect* way to get dc up in an Onbu-also an Onbu tends to be worn higher than a Mei Tai-generally. My son is 5 months as well, but ive worn him in an Onbu since he was 3 weeks.
You dont need to bring the straps anywhere behind or under the baby just through the loops-thats it-like a back pack and then take the ends and tie how ever you choose-Rucksack. i.e. knot at navel, knot above busom or a Tibetian Tie finish. I prefer the rucksack with the knot above busom.
Okay 1st take a look at this page...yes its in japanese but shows various ways of tieing at the chest. Its pretty self-explanatory and easy to follow.
http://onbuhimo.jp/?mode=f7
Now...here r some pics I took a few days ago.
1)
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u...07/Photo37.jpg
First picture is after ive gotten him up, i put the straps through the loops.
then I pull them taunt infront of me and the stand up straight.
2)
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u...07/Photo42.jpg
The key to comfort with an Onbu is bouncing the baby up to a high back carry.
I normall hold the straps taunt w/ one hand, am bent over a tad, use other hand on babies bottom to secure him and gently bounce him up.
3)
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u.../Photo43-2.jpg
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u.../Photo45-2.jpg
These r pics of how I tie...I prefer a ruck, knotted above the busom...it leaves ALOT of strap left hanging which I just leave. if I need to get it out of the way i'll fold the extra strap under or something like that.
Seriously...thats it! An Onbu is...in my opinion a *much* faster back carry becos you only hafta worry about looping through the straps and voila..ur 90% done.
Incase ur curious, im using a Japanese brand Onbu which is a wee bit diff than an American made one...but they pretty much the same.
Hope this helps!
Pls feel free to PM me if you have more Q's.
Umm Ibi