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Most of my pg dreams are not good at this point but I did want to comment on the tearing. With ds1 I tore fairly bad. With ds 2 he came quickly and I tore a decent amount but not bad. With ds 3 and dd1 I breathed through the pushing, concentrated on them slowly coming out. Also I hD my fingers on my pereium and guided the baby out. I had mini ul tearing. I stayed in bed for 3 days and opted not to be stitched. The recovery was great and everything healed way Better than the first two. So there are things you can do to minimize the tearing and the discomfort.
