is there a theme.
are you oppposed to little bags of goodies or just candy and junk toys.
I like the bags of goodies. here are some good things for three year olds:
tattoos
stickers
bubbles
playdough
hair pretties for girls
scented markers
magnets (if you have someone who can do it it is fun to take a picture at the beginning of the party and then print it onto magnet sheets or sticker sheets)
yummy treats -
Cheddar Bunnies and and now they have a graham version
fruit leather
trail mix
chex mix (or some veriation there of)
string cheese
juice boxes (I guess this wouldn't be a big treat for kids who get them all the time
)
tubes of applesauce or yogurt
The dollar bins at target have also had some good scores. they change every couple of months though and I don't know if thereis anything appropriate right now.