Can anyone give me advise on how to write a birthing plan and who I should give it to? What are all the different things to consider? What about preferences after the baby is born? I am so lost. I keep hearing "write a birth plan about your preferences" but I really don't know what all is out there and what my options are. With my 1st we were at a military hospital and they pretty much told me that they don't accept birthing plans and that we had very little say. It was a horrible experience and I don't want to go through that again. I'm still not sure what my options really are. Any suggestions, resources, examples?