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<div style="text-align:center;"><span><b><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/heartbeat.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="heartbeat"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/heartbeat.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="heartbeat"> Welcome to the May thread, ladies!!!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/heartbeat.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="heartbeat"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/heartbeat.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="heartbeat"></b></span></div> <br><div style="text-align:center;">most of us are former ttc 6+ month ladies. And at this point, <i>many </i>of us are at or past 12 months, <i>many </i>have had losses, <i>many </i>are dealing with various forms of infertility, and some are just in a waiting period until they can ttc again.</div> <br><div style="text-align:center;"><b>the name?</b> well... We tend to be a little <b>bitter </b>sometimes. So read with care <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/censored.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="censored">. And due to everything, our emotions run a little <b>raw <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/disappointed.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="disappointed"></b>. Too many cycles of BFN and CD1 <b>sushi </b>+ sake to console ourselves. This ttc business is something that seems to "just happen" for so many... But we just can't get "it" right. So this is where we can "be together", share and express anything. </div> <br><div style="text-align:center;"><i>some of us have gotten a little quieter lately... There is only so much you can post in the <b>"i want to be pg, but i'm not"</b> category. However we are here in spirit and most likely lurking!</i></div> <br><div style="text-align:center;"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/grouphug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="grouphug"></div> <br><span style="color:#FF0000;">trying to keep up with past bsls who have made it to the glorious other side? <a href="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?p=15130054&posted=1#post15130054" target="_blank">here</a> is the current thread to stalk bsl grads in i'm pregnant. May we all move on to the i'm pregnant thread and eventually need a life with a babe thread!</span><br><br><span><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>~current bitter sushi ladies~</b></span></span><br><br><b><span>jenger</span> </b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #2 since August 2009</span><br><br><b><span>apricot</span> </b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc since 11/08, m/c 4/09 and ectopic 12/09. </span><br><br><b><span>barefootgirl </span></b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc using clomid to combat anovulatory cycles, m/c at 5 weeks 11/09.</span><br><br><b><span>belovedk </span></b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">mama of 2 (15yo ds, 10yo dd). Wife to one incredible man. Residing in central va. TTC someone new since november 2008, m/c 7/09. An avid bellydancer, and firedancer, who works part time doing hair, and who is giving her loving energy nowadays more toward her dh than ttc.</span><br><br><b><span>allison</span></b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;"> mommy to 4 amazing troublemakers. Newlywed to david. Ttc our 1st together since 2005. Forever missing piper quinn. Just got through hsg and 1st round of clomid this month.</span> <br><br><b><span>*christel*</span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc with dh for two years and two months. Trying clomid.</span><br><br><b><span>court</span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #3 (dh's #1) since 08/08, madly in love with dh and my boys and raising our family in the pacific northwest. Tried 2 iui's, decided to try naturally, against all odds, with male factor for awhile, until moving onto ivf in the distant future. </span><br><br><b><span style="color:#FFA500;">enigo</span> </b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">has one beautiful son, trying to conceive after three losses</span> <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/mecry.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="crying"><br><br><span><b>fierbugg </b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #1 for 9 years, losses 8/00, 5/04, and 1/07. Currently on a ttc break, getting life back in order and awaiting hormone testing to help figure out what's going on!</span><br><br><span><b>finnegansmom</b></span> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #3 since july 2009, one 3 y/o, one 18 m/o and a recent <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/brokenheart.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loss"> in december of 09 </span><br><br><span style="color:#0000FF;"><b>grahnola mum</b></span> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">loving our wonderful family of me, dh and dd (12/07). Ttc #2 since 11/08 with four losses.</span><br><br><b><span>GrapesBunch</span> </b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;"> TTC #1 since August 2008</span><br><br><b><span>hsmamato2</span> </b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc for over 8 months and appreciative of a space to vent out that bitterness!</span><br><br><b><span style="color:#FF0000;">iheartmyfamily </span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;"> ttc #1 for 14 months with one <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/brokenheart.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loss"></span><br><br><b><span>jenniferadurham</span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">Jennifer(28), married to my soulmate 'M'(36), DD(8), and DS(17 months.) We have been TTC since Nov '09 & have had 1 MC (3/7/10) </span><br><br><b><span>justkiya </span></b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">married to my darling dh for 5.5 years, ttc#1 since march 2007, diagnosed with pcos in 06/08, on metformin since, one cp</span> <br><br><span><b>kalamos23</b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;"> TTC #2 since May '09 two <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/brokenheart.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loss"> 06/09 <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/brokenheart.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loss"> 02/10 </span> <br><br><span><b>kel32brown</b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">kellisue, upstate ny mama, warmly married to farmboy and raising 5 little ones.</span><br><br><b><span>Keria</span></b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;"> TTC #1 since October 2008.</span><br><br><b><span>kparker </span></b>- <i>waiting to be ready.</i> <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #1 since 9/08 with male factor, now waiting to start in January with donor sperm! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"></span><br><br><span style="color:#000080;"><b>ladyjools</b> </span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">i'm a 25 year old scottish girl with dh for nearly 6 years and ttc for 5. We lost our baby boy, samson, at 16 weeks in july and are now ttc again. </span><br><br><b><span>Laggie</span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">TTC #1 since Fall 2009 with male factor issues</span><br><br><span><b>lapis</b></span> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #1 since August 2008. Living in a new country with a calmer lifestyle and trying not to get sucked into the ttc vacuum.</span><br><br><span><b>luvmywestie</b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc for 2 years with no clear diagnosis, m/c 10/08.</span><br><br><span><b>MahnaMahna</b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">mama to 1 amazing son, ttc #2 for 8 months, natural parenting blogger</span><br><br><span><b>mamamerle</b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #3 after taking 17 months to conceive #2. Hoping the magical clomid/gonal-f/iui combination will work again!</span><br><br><span><b>Maurine</b></span> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">Me 31; DH 33; married since 2006, TTC #1 since August 2009 w/ mild PCOS and Morphology 0%...trying a round of clomid and looking into IVF </span><br><br><span style="color:#FF0000;"><b>mi_dawn</b></span> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc a rainbow baby after losing baby William (born still 4/09) and two m/c in 09.</span><br><br><span style="color:#800080;"><b>millefleur</b></span><span style="font-size:xx-small;">- a 33 year old aspiring baby mama in upstate ny. Happily unmarried to dp for 5 years. 9 week m/c 12/08. Ttc again since 6/09.</span><br><br><b><span>mksmith </span></b><span style="font-size:xx-small;"> - Megan, TTC after a loss in 04/10.</span> <br><br><span style="color:#008000;"><b>nanette56 </b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">wife (29) of 8 years to dh (31) , mother to ds (5), ttc #2 with pcos. One loss february 2010. </span><br><br><span><b>praying4baby </b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #1 for over a year, loss late 2009. </span><br><br><b><span style="color:#FF0000;"> rachwms</span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #2 since 2006 </span><br><br><span><b>rochelleann</b></span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #2 since 2008 with loooong irregular cycles.</span><br><b><span><br>
schae </span></b>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">wife to t and mama to luka. M/c in 2007. Ttc #2 with pcos since 3/09, 2 m/c in 2009.</span><br><br><span style="color:#000080;"><b>simplyrochelle</b> </span>- <span style="font-size:xx-small;">ttc #1 on and off since 5/2007, m/c at 12 weeks 9/08.</span><br><br><b><span>tear78</span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;">31 year old elementary school teacher. Married to hubby since 2006. Love camping, fishing, reading, and working in the yard at our beautiful new tiny little home. Ttc #1 since may 2008, m/c 12/08 and 2/09. Seeking medical help and trying to remember when hope was strong and healthy. </span><br><br><b><span>xtara2003x</span></b> - <span style="font-size:xx-small;"> ttc #2 since June 2009, one 3 y/o DD, and a <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/brokenheart.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loss"> at 9 weeks 03/20/10. </span><br><br><br><div style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><b><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin"> recent bfps! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin"></span></b></span><br><span style="font-size:xx-small;">stick little babies, stick, stick, stick....</span> </div><br><br><b><span>xtara2003x</span></b> - ttc #2 for 11 months! Mama to 3 y/o DD, a <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/brokenheart.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loss"> at 9 weeks and due in January 2011! <br><span style="color:#FF0000;"><b>jessica_s</b></span> - TTC #2 for 19 months, three angels, one awesome little boy and due in January 2011!<br><span><b>Qbear'smama</b></span> - TTC#2 for 7 cycles. Due December 2010!!<br><span><b>kellyttc#1</b></span> - TTC#1 for almost 3 years! Due December 1st 2010.<br><span><b>yummyyumyummama</b></span> - ttc #2 since 3/09 Due 11/22/2010!<br><b><span>jillc512</span></b> - ttc #3 since 9/08, due 5/1/10.<br><b><span>jelinifer</span></b> - ttc #1 since 12/08, due 5/8/10.<br><b><span>starkyld</span></b> - ttc #1 since january 2008, due 5/22/10.<br><b><span><span>rhiannon09</span></span></b> - ttc #1 since january 2008, due 6/?/10 with twins!<br><b><span>pinoikoi </span></b>- ttc #5 for 6 months, due 6/21/10. <br><span><b>lisko15 </b></span>- ttc #1 (or #3) for 14 months, due 6/26/10.<br><b><span>colorbywords</span></b> - ttc #1 for 13 months, due 8/?/10.<br><b><span>lzp</span></b> - ttc #1 for 17 months, due 8/10/10.<br><b><span>maerynpearl </span></b>- ttc #3 (or #1) for 6 cycles over 2 years, due 9/14/10.<br><b><span>aidanraynesmom</span></b> - ttc #? For 5 cycles over 14 months, due 9/?/10.<br><span><b>carlyle</b></span> - ttc #2 for over 12 months, due 10/1/10.<span> <br></span><b><span>lyndzies</span></b> - ttc #1 for 10 months, due 10/4/10.<br><br><br><br><div style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#800080;"><b><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> our happy graduates (from the 6+ thread) <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"></span></b></span></div> <br><div style="text-align:center;"><b>minsca </b>- <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/babyboy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Babyboy"><b><span>seth </span></b>~ born 10/20/09 ~ 6 lbs 10 oz<br><b>kalishanti </b>- <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/babygirl.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Babygirl"><b><span>zion merciful</span></b> ~ born 11/22/09 ~ 7 lbs 11 oz<br><b>lauren 31 </b>- after 15 months - due 02/08/10 <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/stork-girl.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="stork girl"><br><b>valid28 </b>- after 9 months - due 02/04/10 <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/stork-boy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="stork boy"><br><b>mrs_lurker</b> - after 14 months - due 2/14/10 <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/baby.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="baby"></div> <br><div style="text-align:center;"><b><i>check in with us when you can, ladies!</i></b></div> <br><br><div style="text-align:center;"><b>and mrstc </b><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> we are thinking of you and hope all is well. Pm one of us if you can! </div><br><br><div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-size:xx-small;"><i>(please let me know if your first page blurb needs to be updated in anyway. As well, new ladies are welcome, <b><span style="text-decoration:underline;">but please join with care</span></b>.)</i></span></div>
 

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thanks <b>Apricot</b>! thinking of you, how are you doing today?<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/dust.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="dust"> and <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> to everyone
 

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Thanks, Apricot! Huge, huge hugs to you! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br><br>
So as of tonight hubby is going to change my password so I can't log on (per my request, btw) until I either get pregnant or get my period again. I know it means I can cheat and still lurk, but the point is I'm going to try to detox from TTC a bit. I'm going to super duper miss you ladies!!!! When I come back, you all be over on the other side, ok? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love"><br><br>
ps - can everybody please post the crap out of today, cause it's my last chance! lol...<br><br>
pps - I'm feeling very sad today, not a good start. I hope this break gives me some healing.
 

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<b>tear</b>; thinking of you and wishing you a relaxing month off... <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> i'm sorry you are feeling so sad <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> lots of understanding and love your way...
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> Tear I hope the next post from you is a big ol' BFP <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile">
 

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Hey Ladies...<br>
I would like to joint the thread. I am Megan and just waiting to get AF after my missed mc at 13 weeks (had a D&C almost 4 weeks ago).
 

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Can you change my blurb up there to something along the lines of starting in Jnauary using donor sperm, since the DH is no longer being a total punk <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/wink1.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="wink1">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">Can you change my blurb up there to something along the lines of starting in Jnauary using donor sperm, since the DH is no longer being a total punk <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/wink1.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="wink1"></div>
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<b>lapis</b>, thanks for the love and understanding! I needed it today. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love"><br><br><b>Beloved</b>, thanks for the good wishes!<br><br><b>mksmith</b> <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/Welcome.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="welcome"> I'm really sorry for your loss. Huge, huge hugs! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> these ladies are amazing.<br><br><b>kparker</b> woohoo for your hubby de-punking! Sending you lots of love!<br><br><b>mae</b> oops! We cross-posted. Miss ya, hon!<br><br>
afm - ok...this is it (it's hard for me, can you tell?) Hubby is coming home now, and he's gonna lock me out. lol...It sounds weird, but I really think I need the help, and I think a forced TTC breather (but not TTA) is just the thing I need. See you ladies in a few weeks! Huge, monster hugs!!! <b>enigo</b>, I can't wait to log on again and see your squirming little bean ultrasound pics!!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/grouphug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="grouphug"> and <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/blowkiss.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Blowkiss"> Lots of love!
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;"><b>mae</b> oops! We cross-posted. Miss ya, hon!<br><br>
afm - ok...this is it (it's hard for me, can you tell?) Hubby is coming home now, and he's gonna lock me out. lol...It sounds weird, but I really think I need the help, and I think a forced TTC breather (but not TTA) is just the thing I need. See you ladies in a few weeks! Huge, monster hugs!!! <b>enigo</b>, I can't wait to log on again and see your squirming little bean ultrasound pics!!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/grouphug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="grouphug"> and <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/blowkiss.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Blowkiss"> Lots of love!</div>
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please stalk the graduates thread sometime in the next two weeks (or have your sister let you know) I have my appointment tomorrow and we will be scheduling the ultrasound so we will finally know who is in there!<br><br>
have fun and relax, <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/fingersx.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="fingersx"> that you have natural luck this cycle!
 

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Thank you for the new thread Apricot!<br><br>
Tear - have a WONDERFUL break, introduce some sperm to an egg, and surprise us soon with a BFP!<br><br>
mksmith - <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> for your loss. I hope your stay here is very short!
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">afm - ok...this is it (it's hard for me, can you tell?) Hubby is coming home now, and he's gonna lock me out. lol...It sounds weird, but I really think I need the help, and I think a forced TTC breather (but not TTA) is just the thing I need. See you ladies in a few weeks! Huge, monster hugs!!! <b>enigo</b>, I can't wait to log on again and see your squirming little bean ultrasound pics!!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/grouphug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="grouphug"> and <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/blowkiss.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Blowkiss"> Lots of love!</div>
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<b>Tearrrrrrrrr</b> don't go!!!<br>
My ultrasound is on Friday. not to be negative, but I am not feeling very positive about it right now. Either way, I may take a break from MDC too. I need to find something else to think about. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/redface.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Embarrassment">
 

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Thanks for the welcome! I appreciate it!<br>
I am having a really hard getting over this mc. DH and I are "suposed" to have protected BD sessions, but I am refusing. I have not found any data that says the getting pregnant right after D&C has an increased chance of mc, and since we needed some minor fertility help I am doubting that we will get preggers on our own.
 

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I had a missed miscarriage at 13 weeks also and was told that the wait is more for psychological reasons than for physical ones.
 

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Megan - check out your blurb up top and let me know if you want changes. The only thing I advise my clients is that we'll need to do an early dating ultrasound if they conceive before a normal period, as long as there were no infection or bleeding complications.<br>
Personally, we virtually could not use anti-baby steps when wanting a baby so much. It hurts. One midwife would still have us on TTA, after the ectopic pregnancy, while one OB told us it was fine. We're going with opinion #2.<br><br>
Kparker - !!!!!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"><br><br>
Tear - good luck! Unmedicated cycles after medicated cycles are sometimes luckier than usual, due to the after effects of meds. Check in next month, k?<br><br>
AFM - I'm a little drunk. Just a little. But it feels nice. I think something is up, with the false positive test and now a super heavy period with lots of cramping and other irregularities. At least I had a great cycle, progsterone-wise. Ugh. I need to know the answers that I can't have - should we pursue help? Will we get pregnant on our own in time? Should I have a hsg even though it's spendy and likely will not improve our chances at all? Do we even have a chance without IVF?
 

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Thank you for the new thread Apricot!!!<br><br>
Tear we're gonna missssssss youuuuuu!!! Well AF should be just around the corner me thinks. Hopefully soon. I can't wait to start my meds this month, this break is killing me! My RE is optimistic she can get me to O by CD14 this month by shooting up every day for 5 days instead of every other day (I'm not holding my breath) I'm getting excited about this coming cycle!!<br><br>
Oh, and my Best Friend got her first beta back at 175! She went in for her second one today! I brought her a big gift bag full of baby stuff yesterday. It was all the baby clothes I'd been collecting for our little one. Soooo, I really should get pregnant this month right???
 

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Hi ladies! I'm just getting this post in so I can sub and check in on you ladies. I'm probably 2 DPO right now, got in some BD'ing before I left! This is the first cycle really trying since January, so it's actually going pretty fast.<br><br>
Hugs Tear I hope your break is great!<br><br>
Apricot - that's just <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> not even right. Although glad to hear progesterone was good!<br><br>
Engio - Thinking about you and I hope everything goes perfectly normal!<br><br>
Hi and love to everybody. Sorry for the drive by post!
 

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Hi Ladies!<br><br>
Thanks for the new thread <b>Apricot</b>! I'm glad you got a little tipsy, I think it's good for the soul... I hope you are feeling good...<br><br><b>TEAR</b> I will miss you and be thinking about you. I love how warm and friendly you are, even after you've been through the wringer. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br><br><b>Jessica -</b> I am 3 or 4 dpo today, so we're tww buddies. I am not too obsessive, mostl because my lp is short enough (11-12 days) that by the time I am likely to get a bfp, I get a temp drop or af...<br><br>
Anyway, I forgot to pee on a cbefm stick this morning... Its a waste anyway, as my peak is over, but what happens when I don't do it?<br><br>
And, I feel a cold coming on...<br><br>
I have had 4 really hard nights of sleep, 'cause my 3y/o daughter won't sleep without someone, and she keeps us awake... zzzzzzzzzzz
 

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<b>Jenger</b> Hope you don't get sick, it's really going around right now. DS has a double ear infection <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> and DH has a sinus infection. I'm a hand washing, anti-bacterial dousing fiend these weeks! And nothing happens when you don't POAS on the CBFM. It just asks for a stick the next day. I usually skip the first few days it asks for sticks, because I know it's too early for me to O, and I hate to waste them!<br><br><b>AFM</b> CD1 <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/bawling.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="bawl"> Baseline U/S tomorrow morning. Hoping against all hope that there are no cysts, otherwise I have to go on the b/c this month. (Not that I'm completely against that idea, because I think it really really works, but I'm ready to jump back in again, and the thought of another whole month going by with no hope for an lo will probably have me ready to kill something. Or someone!)
 

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I have been absent for a few days but wanted to drop in and give this nugget...<br><br>
DH got this fortune in his fortune cookie yesterday: "A long term goal will soon be achieved!"<br><br>
We were immediately both convinced it means I'm pregnant...
 
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