Gosh, I'm not really well versed in sensorineural loss, Connor's in conductive. BUT, I thought that a BAHA (bone anchored hearing aid...the same as a bone conductive aid, just anchored into the skull) was only for conductive loss? Oh, and if I remember correctly, they implant BAHAs after age 6, otherwise the skull isn't thick enough yet. Implanting it just means that the kid doesn't have to wear a head band to keep it on his head. There are cuter baseball cap type bands now, you can google BAHA hats and you'll find them. You can also probably make him bands yourself.
Cochlear Implants can be used for sensorineural loss, but if he has hearing on one side, then it would definitely "sound weird" to him, because he'd be getting "normal" speech sounds in one ear, and "electronic" speech sounds in the other. I'm sure there's a better way to explain this, and like I said, Connor has conductive, so this has never been an option for him. I've just learned some here and there while researching hearing loss in general. Fairejour's daughter has a CI, she can talk to you about that.
You definitely need to spend some time researching all of this. Google every word you've ever heard or read from a report so you can udnerstand this and ask the right questions. I'm very surprised that they haven't explained this to you yet! You've known about his loss for a while, right? Sometimes the specialists forget that you're not also a specialist, so you have to push for explanations, then take those explanations home and research them yourself.
I'm still not understanding why he can't wear a traditional hearing aid? If you were told that, then there's probably a conductive component to his loss, or a malformation somewhere in his external or middle ear that would make him not a candidate.
Are you signing with him? Have you been told if the hearing he has on his good side is likely to stay? If there's even a chance that he might lose hearing on that side, I'd definitely get him signing!!