Will using borax with every wash make my dipes fall apart quicker? I'm using it with Tide now, with so-so results(still with the stink, but now just on the hemp), but I thought I saw somewhere that both Tide and borax are harsher than other wash stuff. But I also have seen that lots of folks here are using Tide with good results. Any ideas guys? Re: borax or tide, or any other tips I should try?