I looked on the threads and couldn't find the question I have. So I am sorry if I didn't look back far enough. But my dd is 5 months old. And I have had an ear full from my grandmothers about how I am spoiling her with ploping out my breast every 3 hours for her <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/blush.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="blush"> , she should be going longer and she has all of what she needs from breastfeeding, so I need to stop breast feeding her. OK I am not going to stop any time soon with the breast feeding, but should she be going longer between feedings????? One grandma says 4 hours and the other says 6 hours between feedings. But hell there isn't 6 hours between breakfast and lunch, and not hardly 6 hours between lunch and dinner. So I think 4 hours may be more applicable, but not sure. I thought she would just start going longer between feedings on her own. My first born did. I know I can't compair the two, but don't you feed a hungry baby? She sleeps through the night, feeding every three hours doesn't seem out of the ordinary, but for some reason I just want to know, am I ok?????