I have been bfing our nine month old (first born) from the beginning and plan to continue for a few years; however, after her birth I have found myself practically lacking any sexual drive. I guess it's somewhat normal, considering that I'm bfing but my husband feels so insecure about it. He says things like "you're not attracted to me anymore" and "you don't love like you used to" and gets all depressed.It seems so weird to think that sex is SO important for a relationship! I try to pretend I'm interested but it just ends in disaster. I don't know what to do! It's not my fault that my body doesn't really want sex but he acts like I'm betraying him for not giving it to him often which just makes the problem worse because I start feeling guilty and insecure. Any moms have advice? Will bfing less often help?