Is there anything I can do during pregnancy that will make my milk come in more or faster? I really want to nurse this time around, never had any success with my other 3. I just never had any milk. You can all say I was doing something wrong, but the fact is I never went through any of the stages of breastfeeding that people talk about. My breasts never got any bigger, never had any colostrum or leaking of anything. Never had any engorgment or any pain when nursing did not work out. I just stopped trying & had no changes at all. Is this at all normal? I can't really explain so well in words, but I have never heard of anyone having this problem. I drank fluids, ate healthy, but there was just never anything there. What can I do differently this time around? Any ideas???