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Hello,
I'm new to the forum and am so excited to see so many people in the same boat.
Here is my info: I'm 29, married, and ttc.
Last month was my first off of birth control after many years. When I was not on it, I didn't pay much attention to my cycles, so here i am.
My first cycle off of bc was a long on. I believe about 37 days or so. I counted back 14 days from the start of the new cycle and realized DH and I had not BD since 5 days before predicted ovulation time..so ok.
Day one of this cycle was March 27th.
This month, my expected ovulation dates were around the 7th-11th of April since I do remember my cycles were about 30 days when i was not on the pill. I do know that much at least.
Anyhow, this month I paid attention only to my fertile window and cm. I had ewcm on the 8th and 9th of April, no ewcm on the 10th, but we BD. We also BD on the 12th of April. On that day i noticed, (before we BD) that i had a little streak (tiny) of blood in what was clear, strechy cm. I thought this maybe was ovulatory bleeding. The next two days i had tiny spotting. It was pink then lt brownish in color. Very light and it was only noted with a finger or deep wiping-nothing on panties.
I'm hoping so much that we caught the eggie. I believe I'm about 11 dpo right now, but I don't know what to expect in terms of period timing, because I'm not sure it will be normal this month.
I should add that I believe the delay last month was due to me starting, then stopping the pill. I took about a week's worth.
I am hoping to have a normal cycle this month and that I was right in my assumption of ovulation bleeding.
Just a couple of questions to anyone with knowledge--can it be that i get ewcm for 2 days, then non, then ovulate?
I'm trying to target when I ovulated--also am wondering --if it was ovulation spotting did it happen before or after ovulating? Are my chances good?
Any comments are appreciated!
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It's really hard to pinpoint exact ovulation without taking basal body temps every day... because the symptoms can happen before, during or after (all symptoms can) and it's not actually all that common to have an exactly 14 day luteal phase (mine is 12/13 and perfectly healthy, I actually see a lot more ladies with 13 or 15 than 14)
 

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Oh thank you! I really have my hopes up, but if I get another BFN, I will start temping with the new cycle.
(I've already tested twice) I've gotten a bit of pulling pangs above my pubic bone...but none in the past couple of days.
The ewcm coupled with what i think was ovulation spotting would put me at ovulating on the 10th or 11th. Guess I will know for sure once i get AF, right?
 

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Thank you!!! I'm trying not to be consumed by this, but its hard when you want it so bad.
I've spent so much time getting 'ready' school, job, house, marriage that I'm worried its not going to be as easy as it is for some!

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I'm terrified that once dbf and i can TTC more regularly (we've had two chances in the past year and hoping to have another one next month if i can hold off AF for a week this month) that it will be very hard for us to actually make a baby...

I had no problem with my first thre pregnancies and actually got pregnant on birth control pills with DD and using a condom with DS... but that was a different father... he didn't want children and got two. dbf wants two of his own in addition to the two i already have... and I'm scared it wont be so easy!
 

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How old are you? You had two chances? Did you BD around ovulation?
I'm thinking, if you do (as i did) and didn't get any results you could have a problem..THATS what I'm worried about.
If you had those 2 chances and you were just BDing here and there it could be just that you weren't doing it around the right time.
(Like i believe we did last month)



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Kuwait, luckily, but he deals with Iraq.... and he's been there.

both times we had two fertile days... and bd on both... but didn't get lucky enough either time. second time though, i got bfp (barely-there faint positives... bfps!) pregnancy tests and af was a week late... so doc thinks it was a very early miscarriage. first time though nothing.

he's 24, almost 25 and i'm 26 almost 27... so we're young still but... i jsut fear that we want one so bad it's not going to happen.

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