The 'mei tai' type might work for you and her. It's all soft cloth and can be tied in a number of ways. We have one called a Kozy (http://www.kozycarrier.com which is made by a WAHM.
I started using it when DS#2 was a few months old and only put it away when he was getting to heavy for my back...although my dh can still wear him in it on his back...like a back pack.
I really liked it when DS was really little because I could fold it down when he was alert and awake and turn it up when he got sleepy.
There are lots of brands out there, either referrred to as a Mei Tai or an ABC (asian baby carrier). You might want to look into it, since it will grow with your baby as she develops.
HTH,
I started using it when DS#2 was a few months old and only put it away when he was getting to heavy for my back...although my dh can still wear him in it on his back...like a back pack.
I really liked it when DS was really little because I could fold it down when he was alert and awake and turn it up when he got sleepy.
There are lots of brands out there, either referrred to as a Mei Tai or an ABC (asian baby carrier). You might want to look into it, since it will grow with your baby as she develops.
HTH,