i don't get it...i have been reading all the threads lately and when i asked this before i was told that it was understood that DA wasn't a "fabric softener" so it didn't coat the fibers, meaning there'd be no build-up. OK...BUT...i just looked at my bottle of DA...it says it IS a fabric softener AND it has the exact same ingredients as a bottle of Suavatel (cationic something or other), a cheapy fabric softner (which also says it's a fabric softener). so, where did this info of, "it's not a FS" come from? i assume it "works" as in, softens dipes but how can this be any different that other fabric softeners that we have always been told are BIG no-no's???