I would recommend a mei tai first off. If you or dh is more comfortable with buckles and straps, try a Patapum. You never said how much your ds weighs. Patapum makes a toddler carrier that is made especially for 18 months up to 62 lbs.
Originally Posted by Jokerama
So Im looking for something that will be good for a long mountain hike for dh to wear and it would be nice if I could use once in a while too.