Okay...so I'll try to make this as short as possible. I want to concieve Octoberish but I am having trouble sorting through some issues:
Big issue that has many issues wrapped up inside)
I am still nursing my almost 19 month old around 3 times a day (after naps and in the morning). I want to get the silver fillings taken out that were put in 2 years ago before I get pregnant again because I've read so many bad things about them and found an amazing qualified dentist to remove them. Anyway, they said that I need to wait a month after taking out silver fillings to concieve. They also won't take them out (obviously) while I'm still nursing which means I'd have to start weaning her now in order to get the fillings out with enough time to wait a month to hit the "octoberish" timing. Is it possible to have my cake and eat it too? I love nursing and would love to nurse her through another winter. I don't know how to juggle these decisions. I really want to summer baby and the timing of October would work out just perfect but I don't know what to do because I want to make sure I'm not making all my decision based off of "I wants" vs. "DD needs" etc... I hope I made at least a little sense!
Big issue that has many issues wrapped up inside)
I am still nursing my almost 19 month old around 3 times a day (after naps and in the morning). I want to get the silver fillings taken out that were put in 2 years ago before I get pregnant again because I've read so many bad things about them and found an amazing qualified dentist to remove them. Anyway, they said that I need to wait a month after taking out silver fillings to concieve. They also won't take them out (obviously) while I'm still nursing which means I'd have to start weaning her now in order to get the fillings out with enough time to wait a month to hit the "octoberish" timing. Is it possible to have my cake and eat it too? I love nursing and would love to nurse her through another winter. I don't know how to juggle these decisions. I really want to summer baby and the timing of October would work out just perfect but I don't know what to do because I want to make sure I'm not making all my decision based off of "I wants" vs. "DD needs" etc... I hope I made at least a little sense!
