I know all the benefits, and all that, but DH and I are wanting to start trying for #2 soon and I really don't want to tandem nurse. Also, the idea of trying to wean a toddler while pregnant sounds very tiring. I am thinking I should just go ahead and try and wean him by the time he's a year, or a little after, then start trying to get PG again. But then I go back and forth. My LO is cosleeping, wakes 2-3 times a night to nurse and loves it. I do like the idea of extending BFing, but it sounds like it would be a lot more work later on to wean than if I just did it earlier. What does everyone think? Is cosleeping with two hard? What did you do when your 2nd came?