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Since my ds was born 3 months ago, I have tried and tried to get him to go into a carrier. I've tried pouches, the Bjorn, and now the Moby. The result is always the same-fussing, crying, tears. Sometimes he will be content for 5-10 minutes, then he realizes something like, "oops, I'm supposed to hate these things," and he starts fussing or crying. I make sure he's not uncomfortable, his little limbs are all right, he has a clean diaper, he's not hungry, etc., but nothing helps. It's very diffifult to go out of the house and do anything with just the two of us unless he is fast asleep. That's the only time he'll stay in a carrier for any length of time. Thank goodness that my dh carries him everywhere when all three of us go out. I have a stroller, but I can't use it until he has good head control. I really want to be able to carry my baby everywhere, but for my baby, I have to physically hold him, and I can't do that all day long. I recently decided that he would HAVE to go in it at some points throughout the day, like when he doesn't want to be put down, but I have stuff to do, like make food or do laundry. He'd just have to fuss during those times. But I did that today while making dinner, and he screamed, got red-faced, and had tears. I took him out, held him in the same way the carrier was holding him, and he fell asleep.
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There go my pregnancy visions of having a baby on me all the time

Should I just throw in the towel and use a stroller when out, and learn to do everything at home either around his moods or while he's in my arms? Or is ther any advice for how to get this baby loving the carrier?
 

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Success! I tried turning ds around in the moby wrap today, facing forward, and he loves it. I wasn't going to put him in like that for another month, since I thought that 4 months was the earliest I should do that, but he has good head control and isn't wobbly in it at all. Plus, the shoulder pieces provide support, too. I was able to tidy up the house today and do more than sit in the rocking chair. I am really looking forward to being able to run errands without fearing my baby may have a meltdown at any moment. It's a pain to have to zoom through everything at top speed. I guess some babies just don't like being scrunched up, and don't feel happy and secure, like they are SUPPOSED to feel. Haha, babies...
 
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