I'm about your size also except till have about 20 baby lbs to lose since dd is only 3 month old now... but i love my pouches... MnM PIP (pea in pod) pouches are my fav... i think some one was trying to sell and XS a while back on the TP... i also think ringsling that aren't padded work well if you have on with a short enough tail (small zolo would do good). I also find that you can get ABC (kozy style or simalar) made with shorter straps (mine is cusom with shorter then normal straps and i LOVE it!!! HTH!