kittyhead - Congrats! I don't know where they get the "look like daddy" thing. If it were a girl, you wouldn't be upset if she grew up to have larger or smaller breasts or differently shaped labia, right? And yeah, when *does* the penis comparing session take place? While watching football? The 10th birthday? LOL. We're not circing, but I didn't have to work too hard on my argument after he saw a friend's newborn during a diaper change and just about threw up at the sight of blood. But of course people have gone out of their way to ask us about our plans if it's a boy, and then tell us exactly why our wishes are wrong. Everyone's got an opinion.