So Dh and i were talking about this last night. He asked what would i do if anything to the other women and i told him i would beat the sh*t out of her and you, but mostly youand leave. Because i don't beleive that men are these mindless dogs that can't make a concious descision not to give into temptation and cheat. Anyways he agreed and told me he would never cheat on me and i know that but the thing that made me upset was he said he wouldn't cheat on me because of the girls. Meaning he would never want to hurt them. He said this a couple of times. I agreed with that but thinking about it later on i feel upset that he wouldn't think that i would be devasted by it also (which i know he knows i would but it's not the first thing on his mind kwim?). So would this mean if we didn't have the girls it wouldn't be that big of a deal to him? What about when the girls get older would that make it easier for him? I could ask him these questions but i want to know what you mamas think. Have you talked with your DP's about this?