Do you want a chapter book or a picture book? A book she can read to herself, or one her parents can read to her? How much do you know about what kind of books she likes?<br><br>
If I were giving a chapter book to a 5 year old, I'd probably go with <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325&tag=motheringhud-20&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FComet-Moominland-Moomintrolls-Tove-Jansson%2Fdp%2F0374350302%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26qid%3D1274384953%26sr%3D1-1" target="_blank">Comet in Moominland</a>, the first in a wonderful series by Tove Jansson. I'd consider them classics, but they're not as well known as they should be. And they're totally appropriate for almost any kid - no violence, and nothing very sad or scary.<br><br>
For picture books, I'm very fond of almost everything by Russell Hoban, and my kids are too. If I were giving a gift, I might go with <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325&tag=motheringhud-20&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FBeat-Captain-Najork-Hired-Sportsmen%2Fdp%2F1567923224%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26qid%3D1274384869%26sr%3D1-1" target="_blank">How Tom Beat Captain Najork and His Hired Sportsmen</a> or <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325&tag=motheringhud-20&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FSea-Thing-Child-Russell-Hoban%2Fdp%2F0763608475" target="_blank">The Sea-Thing Child</a>.<br><br>
None of those books are particularly girly - in fact, the main characters are pretty much all male. That doesn't matter to my daughter, but I suppose it might to some 5 year old girls.