Oh, tips on diapers... Well, we have 40 bumgenius and have used them exclusively since 1 month on. DS was 7.5 pounds at birth, and they were just a LITTLE bit too small. But after a month of growing, they fit him peachy fine
DS is now 25.5 months and he's still on the medium setting, though I think we're getting pretty close to moving up to hte last biggest setting. They have been great - super easy to use, anybody can change his diaper, etc. They go on/off just like a sposie would, and they've been super easy to take care of - we pull the liner out, drop it in our diaper pail (just a standard trash can with lid beside the toilet), then drop the diaper in ontop... if it was/is poopy it gets rinsed out in the toilet and sprayed with a little Bac Out. I wash them on my longest setting on HOT with a little Allens Naturally detergent and an extra rinse, and then dry on medium. We have a couple minor stains but nothing major. And mostly the stains are pink from the PinxAV that we use to keep diaper rash at bay
(DS has a tendency not to say anything when he poops so he occasionally sits in it for a while, which inevitably gives him a rash....)