I recently found a doc to do co-care for me, btu I want it on my own terms. I don't however want to seem unreasonable. How often do you think a woman should go in for visits with the OB when she is already being seen by the midwife? I am just going to the OB for some blood work and an ultrasound and so she can be back-up just in case I need her. I go in tomorrow and I am wondering how I should bring up frequency of visits.