I was just wondering if anyone else has a hard time not "planning" fun time with your DH. We've been cosleeping with our first child her entire life wich is 13months.We both love cosleeping and can't imagine it any other way. However it seems to put a huge damper on our intimate relationship.: It seems that we only have time for one another when she falls alseep. Know this wouldn't be so bad but she falls asleep nursing around 8:00 and I always feel that its my responsibilty to go and get my husband off the computer and say ok time to play. There doesn't seem to be any romance or spontianity. We have made the guest bedroom our special place but it still sucks. Does anyone else out there share this problem? Or are there any suggestions on how to renew the passion? I just hate feeling that I still have to take care of DH needs after I take care of our DD. I would appercaite any feedback. Thank you!